Truly speaking men are deep. It seems so difficult to understand the depth of the thought of man. No one seems to know what goes on in the heart of man except the spirit of the Lord. Okay I am not preaching, I am not here to establish any sermon neither would I claim total cognisance of what I know and the facts of the topic but I will only state my opinion.

To the singles, if you ever considered match making as the only option to finding a suitable spouse, deem it fit to investigate the type of relationship that exist between the match maker and whoever you are been hooked up with. If I were you, I wouldn't divulge any information about my past yet, especially if the match maker as done that on your behalf.

Neither should you assume you know everything about the other person. You really want to take your time on this one. If you ever get the feeling that the match maker and who ever you are been hooked up with, keep comparing notes, trying to see if they both have up to date information about you; and that feeling is so strong and won't go away, at every glance, you catch them mumuring and jiggling behind your back, my dear you really need to find out what those hidden smiles and jokes are all about, if you do not want to end up as a prey passed around simply for pleasure.

And again to the singles, you do not want to know who this person is, the fact remains you are not just comfortable because 'this person' is always around your boyfriend or girlfriend. He or she, keeps coming around and I mean "he or she" in this context, if I were you, I will be a little bit concern even if they were of the same sex (homosexuality is real).

They are just too close for comfort. He or she seems to know more about your would be husband or wife better than you do. They are always chatting, taking pictures together and uploading them on social media. But each time you ask, he says; she says; "hellooooooo, we are just friends, please don't get on my nerves, you and I know there is nothing going on between us, you know that, don't you"?

My dear, tell him you don't, the only thing you want to find out is if they have a soft spot or a tint of feeling for each other and an uncontrollable one. You need to do some eye opening. Open your eyes and find out the truth, whatever you choose to do after, lies in your hands.

LOVERS DISGUISED AS FRIENDS, SINGLES BEWARE

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