Three things you should desire as a single or married couple

  • As a single or married couple, there are three things you should pray into your life daily. They are not exhaustive, but these three things will almost take care of every aspect of your life.
    Listen to me, the people you admire and you often envy are not really favoured more than you, they simply know what you don’t know.

    What  a man knows can be very powerful. That is why the scripture says that:
    "A wise man is strong; yea, a man of KNOWLEDGE increaseth strength."  (Pro 24:5, KJV)

    Listen to me, there is something about God’s help upon your endeavours. It will just simplify everything. Much of what I have enjoyed in my marriage is what I call God’s help.

    I want to pray that grace into your life this morning. I want you to partake of that grace this morning as our partners. I want to release that which we have upon this ministry to come to bear upon your life. I read from my Bible that grace and enablements can be transferred. I want to do that this morning.  I have always told you, that my wife was the first and the last person I asked out. I was twenty seven when we married and she was twenty four. We’ve had our share of challenges, but God has always helped us all the way. The grace that works upon our lives and upon this ministry, I want to pray it over you today, particularly on our partners.

    There are three things you should always pray into your life daily. Mention them and pray in the Spirit about them. Here they are:

    1. Ask for Direction
    There is nothing as valuable as knowing where to go. That is why men have created maps and compasses. That is why we have GPS. That is why there is Google earth. Very powerful.

    There is nothing as frustrating as travelling in the wrong direction! There is nothing as heartbreaking as loving the person that will never marry you. There is nothing as nauseating as walking down the aisle and walking up and out of same able a few months after!

    After praying this into your life, what do you need to do?
    "In all your ways know, recognize, and acknowledge Him, and He will DIRECT and make straight and plain your paths."  (Proverbs 3:6, AMP)
    The second thing is to

    2. Ask for Wisdom

    No wonder Paul said:
    "That the God of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of glory, may give unto you the spirit of WISDOM and revelation in the knowledge of him: The eyes of your understanding being enlightened; that ye may know what is the hope of his calling, and what the riches of the glory of his inheritance in the saints,"  (Ephesians 1:17-18, KJV)

    After knowing direction and the way to go, then you need wisdom in your journey. It is not enough to fall in love with the right person, you need wisdom to handle yourself and your loved one especially when it comes to behavioural tendencies and temperaments.

    That a relationship is God’s will doesn't mean it can not crash. If you don't walk in wisdom, it will collapse like a pack of cards and yet it is God’s will. Always ask for wisdom before beginning a relationship, during courtship and in marriage.

    Finally, you need to always

    Ask for Strength
    That is why Paul prayed like this here:
    "That he would grant you, according to the riches of his glory, to be STRENGTHENED with might by his Spirit in the inner man;"  (Ephesians 3:16, KJV)

    You have direction, you have wisdom and now you need the strength to pull through in the face of challenges. You need strength to obey God. You need strength to be able to say “NO” to man and say “YES” only to God. You need strength to refuse compromise like Joseph.

    Now I pray for you this morning, from the depths of my heart, with the strength my call, that from today:

    Confusion will not be your portion.
    If indeed God has called me and anointed me in this area of ministry, I enter the fullness of my calling this morning, I terminate every operations of diabolical spirits in your life in Jesus name.

    I have seen impossible cases dissolved by God’s power, this morning, I release God’s power to dissolve that impossible puzzle in your life in Jesus name.

    I speak with unction into the lives of those caught in the bond of iniquity, I curse the spirit behind pornography, masturbation, adultery, homosexuality and lesbianism and every other form of sexual perversion, I bind that strong man of infirmity in your life right now in Jesus name.

    I speak forth abundance into the lives of our partners today. I release God’s help into the very areas where you need it in Jesus name.

    I put a stop to every infirmity, I speak healing unto your bodies. The grace that rests upon me and upon this ministry, I release unto you this day in Jesus name!  I declare that the light shines  over you in relationship and marriage, and every darkness flees. Thank you Lord Jesus! I await your beautiful testimonies! Amen!


    I have direction, wisdom and strength

    Lord, teach me to focus on important things


    "But I do more than thank. I ask—ask the God of our Master, Jesus Christ, the God of glory—to make you intelligent and discerning in knowing him personally, your eyes focused and clear, so that you can see exactly what it is he is calling you to do, grasp the immensity of this glorious way of life he has for Christians,"  (Ephesians 1:17-18, MSG)


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