Valentine Day Talk with those in Courtship

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    To our topic of today:
     
    Valentine Day Talk with those in Courtship
     
    I wrote to those who are not yet into relationships yesterday on the need to apply caution as Valentine day approaches.
     
    Today I want to write to those in courtship.
     
    Like you know, each time you are together, your body will be on fire. You already know that, and that is simply natural when you are with someone you love.
     
    I remember how my heart will race in those days of courtship, even when I just hold her hands. It wasn't easy at all, but thank God for the Spirit of God who helps us to say NO to sin.
     
    Do you know you can’t really say NO to sin unless the Holy Spirit helps you? That is why the scripture says “Walk in the Spirit, and you will not fulfill the lust of the flesh.
     
    Walking in the Spirit is walking in step with the Holy Spirit.
     
    Back to Valentine talk, it’s okay to get gifts, it’s okay to be together and talk, there is nothing sinful about that.
     
    But if you know your coming together is going to lead to something else, you better ask Mr. Valentine to stay off rather than destroy your testimony and slow yourself down.
     
    The reality is that if you have been waiting all the while, pressure is going to mount on that day. Don't even risk travelling down to where he or she is and then spending the night in the same room!
     
    I repeat, do not spend the night together in the same room. As a matter of fact, do not even spend the “afternoon” or “morning” alone behind closed doors. If you do, you can trap yourself.
     
    If you are together in the same town, it’s okay to take her out, and talk. Use that opportunity to interact deeply, talk about your career, talk about your future. Talk about the kind of family you want.
     
    It’s okay to be romantic, after all, you read the book of Romans! It’s okay to whisper some sweet words, or like you call it, some sweet nonsense…
     
    But do not cross the boundary! Whatever you will not do, if your pastor or Pastor Dunamis is standing by and looking at both of you, don’t do it. A greater than your Pastor or Pastor Dunamis sees all things!
     
    I beseech you like Apostle Paul would always say, Having done all stand!
     
    Don’t fall on that day. Don't sow wrong seed into your courtship. Don't tamper with foundation of your marital journey. Don't desecrate that which God has consecrated. Do not disappoint heaven because of Valentine!
     
    Valentine day will come and go, but your destiny should keep on shining!
     
    It is possible to say, “oh, pastor, nothing will happen!”
     
    But that day comes, and the devil is looking for every opportunity to get you, and you know something is cooking, then it’s time to take your leave, rather than sit there with him or her, all alone, in the house, with some romantic music setting the mood in the background, and then light now goes off! Lobatan!
     
    Do not tempt the devil!
     
    It is always said that about ten minutes before compromise, you will always know. His voice changes to bedroom voice, his hands starts travelling to forbidden areas, at that point, say NO!
     
    What you also need to do is to sit down and talk before that day. Both of you need to be on the same page. If your fiance is the type that does not believe in waiting and he’s been putting pressures without relenting, then you should be extra careful that day! He has plans for you!
     
    I pray that God will grant you more wisdom to handle that this season, which they call a celebration of love but is actually a celebartion of perversion and compromise!
     
    Stay sensitive to the things of the Spirit, avoid coarse sexual jokes, pray in the Spirit a lot and ask for inner strength to stay strong!
     
    May God help us all.
     
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    CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
    I will not be trapped

    PRAYER FOR DAY

    Lord, keep me from falling in Jesus name

    THOUGHT FOR THE DAY

    2Co 2:11 (AMP)  To keep Satan from getting the advantage over us; for we are not ignorant of his wiles and intentions.

    ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
    Decide to say NO to sin

    READ THROUGH THE BIBLE IN ONE YEAR
    Exodus 33 - 35

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