Five things a wife should never do to her husband - Part 2

  • Yesterday we looked at the first point and today, we will consider the remaining points.

    2. You should not get moody or depressed over everything
    There is something about the atmosphere of a house. The house can be so tense that without you saying anything, a stranger that walks in would know immediately that something is wrong.

    This once happened to Papa Kenneth Hagin. He went to a certain couples’ house, and immediately he entered the house, he said he could tell that wrong words have been spoken in the house!

    As a lady, single or married, one of the trainings you must give yourself is never to get moody or depressed over everything, every time.

    Let’s take a look at the scripture:
    Heaviness in the heart of man maketh it stoop: but a good word maketh it glad. (Proverbs 12:25 KJV)

    Depression, despondency, negative feelings are not just feelings or consequences of the situations and circumstances around you. They can be demonic! That is why these feelings can be so intense and actually lead to suicidal attempts!

    I still read about a teenager last week, who has battled with depression for a while, then walked up to a river, posted last words and picture on Facebook smiling before plunging to his death! Now, I didn’t say you are possessed if you are always depressed, but I can certainly tell you that are being oppressed.

    As a child of God, single or married, begin to take authority over this wrong spirit and reject those negative thoughts. Go for the joy of the Lord rather because the joy of the Lord is your strength!

    3. You should not stop praying or blessing your husband
    As a wife, never allow issues to come between you to the extent that you stop praying for your husband. Keep praying for him! As a single in relationship, pray a lot as you approach marriage. Sometimes, as singles in courtship, prayer together may be what you need, than sitting down in an eatery and whispering sweet nonsense into each other’s ears!

    Thank God that you are romantic, but be prayerful as well. Being romantic and courteous will not arrest any demons. It is in the place of prayers that you make power available that is necessary to transition you from being single to being married.

    You might not even be in a relationship yet, but be prayerful. Prayers are seeds that you can deposit into your future. If you have an uncooperative husband, keep praying. Your prayers can do a lot of wonders!

    4. You should not develop emotional affairs with others
    Finally, ladies should be careful not to develop emotional connections with others apart from your husband or fiancé. It happens so subtly and innocently sometimes and you need to be careful.

    The rule is that you should not share intimate things with others. It usually starts with intimate discussions that look like sincere advice, but the devil can trap you quickly in such scenarios if you are not careful.

    It is important to guard your emotions and not allow it run all over the place. You can renew and stabilise your emotions by reading and studying God’s word regularly.

    Wherefore gird up the loins of your mind, be sober, and hope to the end for the grace that is to be brought unto you at the revelation of Jesus Christ; (1 Peter 1:13 KJV)

    5. You should not disrespect your husband
    As a wife, you need to know that respect is a big issue for your husband. That is why before anything happens; he is already saying that you don’t respect him! You need to sit down with your spouse and ask what the definition of respect is for him. Actually, with men, they all have their unique understanding of what respect should be.

    Don’t bother to follow the dictionary here. You need to access him to find out his perception of respect, and then you seek to do what he wants, as long as it does not contradict God’s word.

    For singles, you don’t need to respect any fiancé that says you should come and spend the night with him. In fact, you should disrespect him because he is about to make you contradict God’s injunctions. The issue of respect should be balanced with God’s word.

    May God help us all!

    I will be good to my spouse, God helping me.


    Lord, teach me your ways that I might understand myself more.



    Every wise woman buildeth her house: but the foolish plucketh it down with her hands. (Proverbs 14:1 KJV)



    Pray that God should teach you to pray more

    Feb 25: Num 5-6



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