What to do when you love more than one person at a time


  • This is appreciating all our partners for your seed sown to KHC in the past week. May God honour you and increase you abundantly! Thanks for joining to reach more people and to advance this work. Your vision will not lack men or resources! As you are sowing financially to advance this work in fostering better relationships courtships and marriages in the lives of others, you will indeed harvest grace and favour even in your own marital endeavours. I pray for more financial opportunities to open unto you, and I declare open heavens over you in Jesus name!
     
    Today is the second day of our fast for the month of August and you can find prayer points for today HERE


     
    Now, to today’s devotional


     
    Mark is a born again christian and in courtship with Sandra. They are both born again and are looking at marriage. Mark went for youth service after graduation in the North of Nigeria.
     
    He became close to his landlord’s daughter who is in the final year. Before he knew it, he was emotionally entangled to Halima. Now, he is totally confused as he had to pretend a lot of times. Halima knows about Sandra but Sandra knows nothing about Halima.
     
    Halima is deeply in love as well and believes that Mark is for him.
     
    Mark is torn in betwixt two, his emotions are travelling in two different directions, and he doesn't know what to do.
     
    He knew he heard God about Sandra. But then, Halima is all the answers to his prayers in a lady.
     
    

It happens! Even married people are not exempt!


     
    Mr and Mrs Johnson are married for three years. But in the last few months, Mrs Johnson has been under intense emotional pressure from an extremely caring colleague who is so tender in his dealings with her. The worse part is that her job brings her into close proximity everyday with this man who is so caring to a point that Mrs Johnson once wondered why she had not met him before marriage!


     
    Now, right in her domain, what she has vowed can never happen to her, is gradually playing out, scene by scene, just like a movie; an affair!
     
    What is she going to do?
     
    What should Mark do?
     
    Whenever you find yourself in this situation, in love with more than one person at a time, you need to do three things quickly. You need to act quickly because the devil is trying to set a trap for you and his ultimate goal is to tamper with your relationship with God.
     
    1. The first is to go back to God and restore your heart. The fact that it happened in the first place is an indication that your heart needs to be restored.
     
    Your heart has been tinkered with and it needs some restorative repair!
     
    You probably think you can never do such things, but now your emotions have shown you what you are capable of doing.
     
    Feelings can never be trusted. Feelings can quickly mislead and bring confusion.

 So, you go back to God and pray that He should restore your soul.
     
    Psa 23:3 (KJV)  

    He restoreth my soul: he leadeth me in the paths of righteousness for his name's sake.
     
    When you pray, God will restore you soul, more like re-setting it to what it ought to be. When you soul is restored, you emotions will be contained and feelings will not give you direction again.
     
    The most dangerous set of people in the world today are people who do whatever they FEEL like doing!
     
    Such people will never be able to please God!
     
    Rom 8:6-8 (KJV)  
    For to be carnally minded is death; but to be spiritually minded is life and peace.  [7]  Because the carnal mind is enmity against God: for it is not subject to the law of God, neither indeed can be.  [8]  So then they that are in the flesh cannot please God.
     
    In the kingdom, you don't do what you feel like doing, you do what you are led to do of God!
     
    And that is how to be safe!
    2. Take time and pray in the Spirit extensively

     
    The second thing you need to do, and you shouldn't skip this step is to pray in the Holy Ghost for an extended time.
     
    Praying in the Spirit will correct a lot of things.
     
    It will give you wisdom to navigate your way out of the maze of emotional confusion.
     
    It will give you strength in your inner man to gain ascendancy over your flesh and feelings.
     
    Praying in the Holy Ghost will help you to hear what God has been saying but which has been inaudible and hidden because of emotional noise.
     
    Praying in the Holy Ghost will help you to identify the right person within you and give you peace concerning who the right person is.
     
    Praying in the Holy Ghost will sort so many other things that we can't even put into writing here.
     
    3. Seek help from a proven pastor or mentor

     
    Finally, seek help. Do not keep quiet at such times as times of confusion!
     
    Speak out and receive help from people that God has placed all around you!

 God will never leave you without a help around you!
     
    I pray for all who may be going through a time of confusion this morning, receive God’s direction in Jesus name. The wrong spirits behind confusion, you are bound in Jesus name!
     
    Right now, receive strength to do the right thing in Jesus name!

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    CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
    My soul is restored

    PRAYER FOR THE DAY
    Lord, restore my soul in Jesus name

    THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
    Psa 23:3 (MSG)  
    True to your word, you let me catch my breath and send me in the right direction.

    ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
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