Hearing God in relationship, courtship and marriage

  • There is no doubt that God speaks to His people. For me, God spoke to me clearly while I was student on the Campus as relating to relationships and marriage. God still speaks today.

    God spoke to me about starting KHC. Then He spoke to me about starting something online. Every step of the way, God has been speaking!
     
    He is a speaking God. “saith the Lord’ is found over eight hundred times in the scriptures.
     
    Jesus constantly speaks to us.
     
    Isa 30:21 AMP
    And your ears will hear a word behind you, saying, This is the way; walk in it, when you turn to the right hand and when you turn to the left.
     
    The Holy Spirit is a speaking Spirit.
     
    Joh 12:50 KJV
    And I know that his commandment is life everlasting: whatsoever I speak therefore, even as the Father said unto me, so I speak.
     
    He desires to lead us. Here a few things to note.
     
    1. God will not speak to you outside of His word.
     
    2. To hear God more, read His word the more. His word in your Spirit, prepares your Spirit like a receptacle to hear God.
     
    3. When you seek His face, you will hear Him speak to you.
     
    4 Fasting and prayer often helps to hear God more clearly.
     
    Act 13:2 KJV
    As they ministered to the Lord, and fasted, the Holy Ghost said, Separate me Barnabas and Saul for the work whereunto I have called them.
     
    5. Relationship and marriage should not be the first issues that arise when you are trying to hear God. Try developing hearing Him in other areas as well.
     
    6. God is particular even with the minutest details of your life, and when you learn to relate with the Holy Spirit like you will relate with a friend, He will always speak to you, like a friend will speak to you.
     
    7 When God shows you a guy, calm down, don’t get suggestive, let him discover too. The lady is not the aggressor; she is the responder.
     
    8. When God shows you a lady, it is just an information because you are His child and fathers speak to their children. You are His friend. So He tells you of what is to come. Jesus said when the Holy Spirit comes, He will tell us of things to come.
     
    9. That he showed you does not mean you should go ahead and propose. You also need to ask Him when to go ahead and propose. There is a difference between preparation and performance. The burden for preparation should not be substituted for the burden of performance
     
    10. In the things of God, He often shows you things ahead. Because the information is coming from God, it would be like you should act immediately. But most of the time, it is never an immediate action. He showed Joseph some things that only came to pass several years later. David was anointed but never mounted the throne immediately. Some of these promises have to be patiently obtained.
     
    11. It is possible to get a big ‘NO’ from a lady and yet God has spoken to you. You jumped ahead and did not follow His leading completely. The lady is not ready at the time. Just like God spoke to you, God has to speak to her too!
     
    12. The primary way God will lead you is through inner witness. You just know within you. Do not seek dreams and visions because the devil can give them. Stay consistently in God’s word and pray in the Spirit a lot. That way, God will ensure that you don’t miss it in life.
     
    13. It is one thing for God to speak to you about a person. That does not mean it will work out or lead into marriage especially if you unrepentantly compromise regularly, or you did not work at your relationship in terms of character development. For example, God might have spoken to you and yet anger problems can ruin it all.
     
    14. The success of a marriage is predicated on hearing God continually. You don't ever stop hearing Him.
     
    15. There is the written word and the spoken word. There is that which has been documented in the scriptures for you, but it must be complemented with that which should be downloaded daily into your spirit man.
     
    16. The documented word often brings general guidance and wisdom. The downloaded word often brings specific guidance.
     
    17. You love life will not work without your life of love
     
    18. If you hear God constantly and follow Him, you will avoid a lot of agony and regret that comes from unnecessary mistakes and errors.
     
    19. Hearing God constantly helps you to led of the Spirit in relationship, courtship and marriage. It will help you to raise your children and have a great family.
     
    20. May the eyes of your understanding be opened, may your spiritual ears be opened to hear God constantly.
     
    I pray for you this morning, your life will not become an experiment. You will enjoy God’s leading in every area of your life in Jesus name.
     
    There are a group of precious people called KHC PARTNERS! Want to join them? Check links below to become a partner and be able to give! God will honour your seed! Amen!

    CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
    I will hear God constantly

    PRAYER FOR THE DAY
    Lord, open my eyes to see and my ears to hear

    THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
    Isa 30:21 (MSG)  
    ...urging you on whenever you wander left or right: "This is the right road. Walk down this road."

    ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
    Be a part of KHC Events Center Project. Check links below

    READ THROUGH THE BIBLE IN ONE YEAR
    Isaiah 49-53

    Pastor Dunamis - +234 802 350 7395

Comments

Partner With KHC

Sow A Seed To KHC HERE
                                           
Partner With KHC HERE