Oh ye Baes, awaken not thy Boos!


  • Son 2:5 (KJV)  

    Stay me with flagons, comfort me with apples: for I am sick of love.
     
    “Stay me” talks about establishment.
     
    “Comfort me” talks about sustenance and encouragement.


     
    These two elements are necessary to channel love into the proper direction.
     
    With God, you need your feet established and you need His continual comfort.
     
    With your bae or boo, you need constant communication and a little gift here and there which should be mutual.
     
    Without constant, genuine and sincere communication, the relationship or marriage is headed for the rocks.
     
    Even so, without constant communication with God, the lover of your soul, spiritual life is endangered.
     
    Let’s go to the next verse.

    Son 2:6 (KJV)  

    His left hand is under my head, and his right hand doth embrace me.

This talks of a loving closeness, an affection that is obviously displayed.


     
    It reminds me of the scripture here:
    Deu 33:27 (KJV)  

    The eternal God is thy refuge, and underneath are the everlasting arms: and he shall thrust out the enemy from before thee; and shall say, Destroy them. 


     
    The everlasting arm of God embraces us and caresses us. God is the lover of your soul.
     
    But here in the physical realm, you also find yourself doing this even before you are married.
     
    Deep embrace. I remember holding my fiancee that way a few times. Maybe on some of those special days like birthdays, or a welcome greeting after holidays, you quickly use the opportunity to steal some amorous embrace and savour the feelings that follows!
     
    The blood of Jesus!
     
    And this is what leads to the topic of the day which can be found in the next verse.
     
    Son 2:7 (KJV)  

    I charge you, O ye daughters of Jerusalem, by the roes, and by the hinds of the field, that ye stir not up, nor awake my love, till he please.
     
    This is talking to born again Christians! O ye daughter of Jerusalem!
     
    O ye daughters of KHC, I charge you, do not awaken or stir what is supposed to be asleep before its time.
     
    You see, no matter how guys are stirred up and insisting, if ladies refuse to cooperate, the bond of iniquity cannot be strengthened.
     
    But if it is the lady who is asking for jeru trap, if it is the lady disturbing and stirring up emotions, asking for kisses and hugs and tight embraces, that relationship is at risk.
     
    The guys are under pressure already! When a lady now makes herself available. stirring emotions, it can only take God and the help of the Holy Spirit to avoid doing what you are not supposed to do.
     
    So the advice goes to the ladies, because you have a lot of strength to say No!
     
    Another translation says:
    Son 2:7 (MSG)  

    Oh, let me warn you, sisters in Jerusalem, by the gazelles, yes, by all the wild deer: Don't excite love, don't stir it up, until the time is ripe—and you're ready.
     
    My daughters on KHC, do not go to his house to play a housewife before marriage!
     
    My daughters on KHC, do not dress scantily in his territory!

     
    Do not awaken love, before it is time!
     
    The implication is that a time comes, within marriage, when you can dutifully and rightly awaken your husband’s love!
     
    And the Angels would even clap for you!
     
    But wait till that time!
     
    To our married daughters on KHC, it is proper to awaken His love from time to time.

     
    Do not let him initiate Jeru trip all the time!
     
    You see, as a wife, you have to be skillful in that area.
     
    There are times when Jeru trip is wanted, but there are also times when it is needed.

     
    When it is wanted, you can wait for Him to initiate it. But when it is needed, don't wait for him. You go ahead and initiate it! That is very scriptural. And he will love you more for that. He will not.
     
    Jeru trip is needed when he is down emotionally and when he has just suffered a business failure or when he is at his lowest ebb.
     
    You see, the prostitute out there does not wait for him to initiate anything. She jumps on him!
     
    And because he has no fear of God, he will go back to that strange woman again and again because in is mind, his wife at home is boring. She does not know how to awaken love!


     
    Married women, learn. Stop speaking in tongues when you are supposed to be satisfying your husband in bed!
     
    I will be around next Saturday in Lagos at a church (Pastor Itua Ighodalor) to do a training for married couples on Jeru Trip!
     
    A lot of marriages have crashed because of this silent issues!
     
    We are silent about it in church, but it is a raging fire in homes!
     
    

Back to our single baes, the scripture advises you to wait.
     
    You see, I don't care how spiritual you think that guy is, do not go and pass the night in his house all in the name of night vigil.
     
    Night vigil will turn into something else!
     
    The guy is under pressure already, you now go and sit down with him, in secluded place, touching each other and doing things your Pastor must not catch you doing, albeit that God is seeing!
     
    You are awakening love before it is time!
     
    It is like trying to depart before you arrive.
     
    It is like driving a car before your time. 

     
    It will cause an accident.
     
    May you not have a relationship or marital accident!
     
    Do not pressure him, he may not be able to handle it.
     
    Do not tease him sexually, it may lead to regrets later.
     
    Do not send your half nude pictures to him, you may be setting him up for masturbation with you as the one dimensional object.
     
    It will affect his relationship with God, and ultimately, the power that should keep you together will be short-circuited.


     
    Do not allow him to spend night in your room. Be principled.
     
    A love that is awakened before its time becomes lust. A lust that that is encouraged becomes a rehearsal for adultery.
     
    O ye daughters of KHC, when I say do not awaken love before its time, it is for your protection. It is that you will not lose your testimony in God. It is that the devil will not have a foothold to wreck havoc in your relationship.
     
    

You have a high libido? Wait till your time. Wait till after your wedding! Then you are legally licensed for continual, non-stop jeru trip!
     
    But before then, o ye daughters of KHC, awaken not love before its time!
     
    That is why verse five says, yes you are sick of love, but pray that God will stay you with flagons, and comfort you with apples!

    Get your comfort from the word, not on the bed!
     
    Good morning!

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    CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
    I will not awaken love before its time

    PRAYER FOR THE DAY
    Lord, stay me with your

    THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
    Son 2:5 (AMP)  
    Sustain me with raisins, refresh me with apples, for I am sick with love.

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