Knowing the Mind of God in Relationship and Marriage

  • Perhaps, the most asked question is "how do I know the mind of God?"
    How do I know what God is saying?
    How do I know if he is the right person asking for my hands in marriage?
    How do I know if she is the right person before walking down the aisle with her?
    And for those who are already married, what do I do if I realize he or she may not be the right person?
    Let’s begin with the singles first.
    In knowing the mind of God for relationship which will lead to wedding, it requires some efforts on your part.
    Marriage is never a hundred meter dash, but a marathon!
    It requires direction from the Lord and a lot of wisdom in going about it.
    Being sure that you are in God’s will is essential because challenges will come and you need to know you are on the right path to adequately face those challenges.
    Those challenges will challenge your decision.
    Here are a few things to note
    1. A relationship with God first

    I believe so strongly that the most important thing is first of all knowing God Himself. This is so important.
    Without knowing God and trying to seek for a direction from Him is like trying to use Him. It is like the extra tire you have in your car. You never take a look at it until you need it. You cannot relate with your maker like that.
    If you have not spoken to God in months and the all of a sudden you want to hear Him because you just met someone, it is not likely to work out that way.
    God cannot be mocked.
    Hearing God springs up from a relationship with Him.
    John 10:27 (AMP)  

    The sheep that are My own hear and are listening to My voice; and I know them, and they follow Me.
    You can see that there is a relationship with God first before hearing His voice.
    The sheep that are my own…
    Are you God’s own?
    That is the first question to ask.
    If you are God’s own and you have been listening to Him in other areas apart from relationship issues, you will easily hear Him and know what He wants for you.
    So, the first thing is to get back into a conscious relationship with God.
    If you do that, you will hear His voice!
    It is interesting to note that God is always seeking to speak to those that seek Him!
    Proverbs 8:17 (AMP)  
I love those who love me, and those who seek me early and diligently shall find me.
    God loves those who love Him.
    Those who go after God and seek Him will find Him.
    So, you cultivate a relationship. Your goal is not because you want to hear something but because you love God.
    In return God will love you back and be your friend. Then He will speak to you because friends talk.
    He will show you of things to come and that includes marital direction.
    That is how it works!
    God still speaks.
    And He really wants to speak to you.
    He doesn't want you as His child to be confused.
    Being confused and disconcerted is never part of the covenant deal.
    Light is part of your heritage in God.
    Darkness is never your lot.
    From today, you will not grope again in darkness.
    Th light of God will dawn on your path from today.
    You will know what to do.
    Stop taking those anti-depressants, get into God’s word and receive light for your soul.
    I curse the spirit behind confusion in your life today! I speak light and life unto you in Jesus name
    The light is switched on over your destiny now!
    Blessed be the name of the Lord.
    I will continue part two of this message tomorrow. I still have four other things to discuss.
    May I appreciate all our partners and supporters at this moment? God will honor you even as you make this work easy for us. Your ears are opened to hear Him. You will not be disconcerted. Light is your portion!
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    I will not be confused


    Lord, lighten upmy destiny in Jesus name


    John 10:27 (MSG)  
    My sheep recognize my voice. I know them, and they follow me.

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