The Sexuality Acronym According to KHC Part 3


  • S - Sweet and Spiritual
    E - Exaggerated
    X - eXchange
    U - Under
    A - Adultery
    L - Love Language
    I - Immorality
    T - Ties
    Y - Yonder
     
    We have looked at two of these and we will just continue today.
     
    3. X - eXchange
     
    In a sexual relationship, there is always an exchange.
     
    Medically, there is an exchange, not to even talk of the spiritual.
     
    When Judah wanted to sleep with his daughter in-law thinking she was a prostitute, she demanded for some things.
     
    Genesis 38:18 (KJV)  
    And he said, What pledge shall I give thee? And she said, Thy signet, and thy bracelets, and thy staff that is in thine hand. And he gave it her, and came in unto her, and she conceived by him.
     
    Signet, Bracelets and Staff!
     
    Those are significant items. Signet is a sign of authority. Bracelet is for beauty and glory. Staff is for support and motion.
     
    Every time there is a sexual compromise or sin, you lose your authority, you tamper with your beauty, and you can literally slow yourself down.
     
    There is always an exchange.
     
    Joseph would have exchanged the palace for some rounds of jeru trip with Mrs. Potiphar! Click To Tweet
     
    Samson exchanged his glory with sleeping around. His hair which represented his glory was shaved.
     
    Before you loose your trouser belt next time, before you spread your legs, think about what you could be losing!
     
    And if you feel you already lost something, get back in God and start over again.
     
    4. U - Under
     
    Sexual compromise never takes you up. It gets you under!
     
    You think a promotion at work comes as a result with sleeping with your boss who is married?
     
    Yes, you get promoted but it is a demotion in disguise. It is a matter of time.
     
    Physical promotion but spiritual demotion. What is the point of being spiritually dead while physically alive? Click To Tweet
     
    You can never go up on the wings of compromise. God’s word cannot be broken.
     
    5. A - Adultery
    One of the most senseless sins ever.
     
    It just doesn't make sense!
     
    People call me every time, to seek help in this area, and when I ask “Why would you do that?”
     
    They often go like “I don't know what came over me. I wasn’t thinking at all.”
     
    Because if you think deeply, you will run from anything adulterous.
     
    The scriptures confirms that, because all you get are spiritual and physical bruises at the end of the day.
     
    Proverbs 6:32 (KJV)  
    But whoso committeth adultery with a woman lacketh understanding: he that doeth it destroyeth his own soul.
     
    See what Message Translations says”
    Proverbs 6:32 (MSG)  
    Adultery is a brainless act, soul-destroying, self-destructive;
     
    It is brainless because you are simply destroying yourself!

    Next verse says
    Proverbs 6:33 (MSG)  Expect a bloody nose, a black eye, and a reputation ruined for good.
     
    Why would you want to destroy yourself?
     
    That is the question?
     
    What exactly is in adultery other than chaos, lies, deceit, cheating.
     
    After the few minutes of constant jeru trip which you could have gotten from your spouse, what else is there?
     
    Another translation says
    Proverbs 6:32 (CEV)  
    But if you go to bed with another man's wife, you will destroy yourself by your own stupidity.
     
    There are many young ladies sleeping around with married men to pay off their school fees, rent and so on.
     
    On one part, you feel justified, since you have to survive.
     
    On the other side, it is just stupid.
     
    Why would you want to ruin another person’s marriage to sort yourself out, knowing that everything you do is a seed, and that somebody is waiting for you to get married, eventually and would then give it back press down shaken together?
     
    It just didn’t make sense!
     
    And again, God is your Jehovah Jireh, not a man! A man is too small to play that role. Click To Tweet
     
    Adulterers invite confusion into their minds. They lie, cheat and live a double life.
     
    They dole out money to their partners in crime while their children suffer at home.
     
    For believers, be careful because the devil never comes with two horns on his head and a fork in his hands.
     
    He meanders in subtlety!
     
    It begins with a simple innocent likeness and fondness.
     
    Nothing much!
     
    Then it graduates into closeness and our thought life is attacked over time.
     
    Then it coincides with a time when you have issues with your spouse at home and she refuses to cooperate with you in bed for a long time.
     
    Then emotional adultery begins.
     
    That moment when you can discuss intimate things with the opposite sex without the knowledge of your spouse, you just landed on the territory of adultery!
     
    You are still reading your Bible and speaking in tongues, but your mind dances around.
     
    That moment when your are always irritated at your spouse while somebody else puts smiles on your face, you are already dancing on turfs where angels fear to tread!
     
    You start looking forward to being with this nice man or woman.
     
    Your spouse annoys you all the time.
     
    But this colleague at work makes you smile all the time.
     
    Beware! Adultery has begun.
     
    In no time, if you don't cut the crap, it will graduate into physical touches, hugging and holding hands.
     
    At that moment, you are at the precipice of great fall.
     
    And the devil will always tell you, "It cannot happen," until it happens! Click To Tweet
     
    You need to talk to God and then with someone fast about this, or else, the secrecy of the moments will lead into something undesirable.
     
    Never hide anything from your spouse! That is how to deliver yourself from the snare of the fowler.
     
    Remember, your spouse may not know, but God sees it all and it is from God you want your prayers answered, you want favour and all of that!
     
    Married people on KHC, protect yourself by constant communication, forgiving each other as quickly as possible, cooperating with each other in bed and never denying each other and giving yourselves undivided attention!
     
    Be excited about your spouse and stop grouching over everything and anything! Stop being over-sensitive with your spouse. Accept him or her and enjoy yourselves!
     
    For singles, understand that double dating is rehearsal for adultery. Click To Tweet
     
    It takes the same heart.
     
    Why cheat on each other?
     
    May God help us and give us more understanding!
     
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    I will not compromise

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    Lord, preserve my relationship/marriage

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    Proverbs 6:33 (AMP)  Wounds and disgrace will he get, and his reproach will not be wiped away.
     
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