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  • Telegram & Whats App Groups On KHC to Join!
    Posted by Pastor Dunamis Okunowo January 22, 2015

    WHATSAPP GROUPS

    1. KHC Publishers
    This is Evangelism arm or KHC on Whatsapp. All you need to do is copy links you are given daily and broadcast/forward to Whatsapp Groups, FB etc. Admin posts only. Join HERE

    2. KHC Group 1 on Whatsapp

    Get KHC Devotional Links. No Discussions. Admin posts only. Join HERE

    3. KHC Partners on Whatsapp
    You can only be added here. If you are one of the KHC partners, please request to be added to the group by chatting up 0818 415 1627 on Whatsapp

    TELEGRAM GROUPS

    4. KHC Squad on Telegram
    This is Evangelism arm or KHC on Telegram. All you need to do is copy links you are given daily and broadcast/forward to Whatsapp Groups, Telegram Groups, FB etc. Admin posts only. Join HERE

    5. Singles on Telegram
    (Below 25)


    6. Senior Singles on Telegram (Above 25)

    7. Married Couples Only on Telegram

    These Telegram Groups are private. If you want to join, kindly chat up 0818 415 1627 on Whatsapp

Four things to Look for in a Lady You Want To Marry


  • 1. Look for a friend
    It is important you look for a lady who is your friend. Friends don’t want to hurt one another. Friends love each other truly. Friends forgive each other easily. Friends want to be with one another. Friends don’t have problems with communication. They talk all the time.
     
    It is important that your love grows from friendship. That is why it is not good to rush into a relationship with a person you barely know. There is a huge difference between marrying an acquaintance and marrying a friend.
     
    It is even worse when you decide to marry a stranger that you met on the social media. You will not live on Facebook. You will not give birth on Google Plus. You will not cook on LinkedIn. Click To Tweet
     
    So, why establish and maintain a relationship over social media?
     
    Why fall in love with a profile? Why become emotionally attached with a voice over the phone? You have to go for a friend and friendship involved constant communication and committed relationship.
     
    Before you fall in love, before you are caught in a rapturous ecstasy, try and see her one on one! It is impossible to fall in love with a person you don’t know, so become friends first and don’t be caught up in infatuation.
     
    2. Look for a homely woman
    The next thing to look for in a woman is homeliness. Look for a lady that can cook! Yes, she is not a house-help, but she has to know how to cook! Good food is every important to men.
     
    As a single lady, train yourself to know how to cook well. If she cannot cook, there will be issues. Click To Tweet
     
    If as a lady, you had grown up among several house-helps and you barely go to the kitchen, you have to deliberately teach yourself how to prepare good food in preparation for marriage.
     
    If you visit your fiancée and all you are served are always noodles, flakes, beverages and refreshments, you should start suspecting! That’s a joke!
     
    As a wife, be creative about what you cook for your husband. Get on the Internet and download recipe ideas. If you can afford it, and both of you agree on it, you can hire a cook, especially when both spouses keep busy jobs.
     
    3. Look for a teachable woman
    The quality of meekness is one state of the heart that should not be compromised. Marry a teachable woman. You need a lady that is submissive. Submission is not subservience or servitude. It is just a cooperation to allow your husband have the final say.
     
    As a lady, never marry a man you detest or that you cannot defer to. Click To Tweet
     
    In talking to women, Apostle Peter listed some qualities every woman should have and every man should look for.
     
    When they observe the pure and modest way in which you conduct yourselves, together with your [a]reverence [for your husband; you are to feel for him all that reverence includes: to respect, defer to, revere him—to honor, esteem, appreciate, prize, and, in the human sense, to adore him, that is, to admire, praise, be devoted to, deeply love, and enjoy your husband]. 1 Pet.3:2
     
    Now, listen every carefully. You will not always find a perfect woman! You have to allow her to grow. You have to be patient.
     
    If you are looking for that Mrs. Perfect, I have news for you, she does not exist! Click To Tweet
     
    4. Look for a woman you love and your heart blesses!
    Marriage is by choice and not by force, so it is important you look for a lady you truly love and your heart blesses. Don’t marry out of pressure or suggestion.
     
    When you marry a woman you truly love, when there are crisis or challenges, the first statement from you won’t be, “I want a divorce,” rather it would be “how can I salvage this situation?” Why? Because you love her!
     
    The scripture likened marriage to Jesus Christ and the church. If Jesus Christ is like the husband, and the church is like the wife, the question is “has the church, the wife of Jesus Christ been perfect?”
     
    The answer is No! How is Jesus Christ coping? How come Jesus has not divorced the church? The church is truly in a messy state and the body of Christ seemed divided and yet the scripture made a shocking statement that all husbands must learn from.
     
    That he might present it to himself a glorious church, not having spot, or wrinkle, or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish. (Ephesians 5:27 KJV)
     
    How will Jesus achieve this for God’s sake? You see, because I am supposed to take a cue from Him since I am a husband or husband-to-be like Jesus Christ is the husband of the church.
     
    Message Translation even made it more incredible.
Christ's love makes the church whole. His words evoke her beauty. Everything he does and says is designed to bring the best out of her, dressing her in dazzling white silk, radiant with holiness.
     
    And that is how husbands ought to love their wives. They're really doing themselves a favor––since they're already "one" in marriage (Ephesians 5:26-28 Message)
     
    I must look for a woman I truly love and I am comfortable that everything I do or say is designed to evoke her beauty and bring the best out of her!
     
    Verse 27 tells us how Jesus Christ would achieve this.
That he might present it to himself a glorious church, not having spot, or wrinkle, or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish. (Ephesians 5:27 KJV)
     
    In marriage, I have to keep saying, praying and blessing my wife by saying the right things until I am able to present her back to myself as my helper.
     
    She may not be perfect at the beginning, but as a husband, I must patiently pray and bless her until we both grow into the fullness of what God has for us. That is how Jesus Christ is doing it and that is how we will do it. May God grant more understanding.

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    CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
    I have God's wisdom

    PRAYER FOR THE DAY

    By the Spirit of God, I will make the right choices

    THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
    Proverbs 19:14 (KJV)  House and riches are the inheritance of fathers: and a prudent wife is from the LORD.

     
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