How To Understand The Precious Lady In Your Life Part 2

  • We started looking at this topic yesterday! We looked at the following points yesterday. 

    1. Understand her God

    2. Understand her Needs

    3. Understand her Language
4. Understand her Pressures
    We are going to continue with Part 2 today.
    If you missed out yesterday, you can read Part 1 HERE.

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    5. Understand her Temperament

    There are four basic temperaments. Your wife falls into one primary temperament and a secondary one. 

    She would always act out based on her temperamental disposition.

It is your duty as the man to find out what her temperament is. 

    Knowing her temperament will help you to also know her strength and weaknesses.
    This will further enhance the ability to help her in maximizing her strength and minimizing her weaknesses.

    This is what productivity in life is all about.
    Making adjustments and not just being fixated on who you are as a result of your temperament.
    You have to constantly change, drop bad attitudes and negative tendencies and embrace productive habits.

    Your temperament will never be an excuse for your life’s outcome.
    So before you say you really know her, what is her temperament?

6. Understand her Choices 

    A lady thinks different from a man.

    Most of the time, her choices will be emotional and shockingly sentimental.

If you don’t understand this, you will want to shut her down most times, simply because she is not logical.

    The reality is that not all life’s decisions can be established on the ground of logic, sometimes you have to embrace her emotional and sentimental point of view to strike a balance.

    Ignoring her or refusing to understand her choices can cost you a lot of losses. 

    respect your wife's choices
    She would always prefer you to buy food and kitchen stuffs rather than change the paint of your car!

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    She loves shiny things!
    Understand her and don't just focus on your own needs to her detriment.

7. Understand her Femininity 

    You have to understand that she is a female. 

    She is tender. 

    She is sensitive. 

    She is emotional.

She is motherly. 

    She is caring. 

    She is a love being.

    She wants to be cared for.

    She wants you to sometimes know what is wrong with without her saying it because she herself doesn't know!

She wants you to complement her always, all day, all moments and she would never be tired of receiving complements.

    She wants you to rub her shoulder after eating a good meal instead of rubbing your tummy!

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    She wants you to verbalise your love, act it out and really mean it.

    Compliment her without being sarcastic.

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    She wants you to speak in hushed tones, using romantic words.

    She doesn't want you shouting at her or raising your voice unnecessarily.

She wants you be a lover boy!
    Her knight in shining armour! 

    8. Understand her Libido (specifically for the married)

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    Pro 5:18-19 (KJV)  
    Let thy fountain be blessed: and rejoice with the wife of thy youth.  [19]   Let her be as the loving hind and pleasant roe; let her breasts satisfy thee at all times; and be thou ravished always with her love.
    She would mostly never initiate Jeru trip except on rare occasions!

    She even sometimes acts like she doesn't enjoy it, until she is in the act!

    This is because her libido doesn't begin before the sexual act, but in the middle of it!

    Unlike the man who is ready at the drop of hat, she takes her time.

    So, the man must be patient at foreplay!

    Don't just act it! Be real!

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    The man must take a cue from an airplane. It taxis around before taking off.

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    The man must not be an helicopter. It takes off and lands roughly!

    Jeru trip to her is not a night thing, it is an all day affair.

    How did you greet her in the morning?

How many times did you call her during the day?

    Did you leave her a romantic note in the kitchen?

    Did you send some airtime to her even when she has enough money to get that?

    Did you write her a poem?

When last did you chat and the subject of chat is not some quarrel or telling her to go to the market?

    Did you take her out?

    All your actions in the day determines her responses in the night!

    She is simply a love being.
    Loving her and making her feel loved would unlock her creativity and responses!

    I will stop here today!

    I pray that God will honor you in your relationships and marriages and make all things wok out together for you in Jesus name! 

    Be blessed.

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    Pro 5:18-19 (CEV)  
    Be happy with the wife you married when you were young.  [19]  She is beautiful and graceful, just like a deer; you should be attracted to her and stay deeply in love.

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