Are You In An Emotionally Abusive Relationship?

  • Yesterday, we looked at some signs of emotional abuse. We looked at 

    1. Your Individuality is in question
    2. Unending Chastisement 

    3. False Accusation

    4. Blame Shift

    5. Withdrawal

    6. You are always in the wrong 
    7. Control over you finances

    Before we take a look at how to walk free, let us see some more signs of emotional abuse.

    8. Denial of Jeru trip 

    Having a sexual relationship outside marriage is sin in itself and God doesn’t approve of that kind of arrangement. 

    However, withholding of jeru trip is one way that a person can be abused emotionally, by using the withdrawal to control the other person. 

    In the sanctity of a marriage relationship, you are not supposed to deny each other. 

The scriptures says that you should not defraud one another. 

    Married ladies should not use jeru trip to punish their husbands as that may lead to more vulnerability. 

    9. Words like arrows

    Another sign of emotional manipulation is when you are called names, given unpleasant labels, derogatory nicknames and the use of biting cutting remarks.

    Words are powerful and you are what you hear everyday.

A guy goes to Medical school and listens to medical classes for seven years and then becomes a Medical Doctor. 

The same thing with a lawyer.

Invariably, you are what you are hearing. 

You should therefore not allow anybody to constantly pull you down and trample on your esteem all in the name of love. 

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Love will not crush your esteem day after day. 

If one or more of these sighs are prevalent in your relationship, you may need to pause and review it.

    Listen to me, marriage do not change abusers.

It is better to remain single and wait for the right person than to rush into a marriage with an abuser because of the pressures around you.

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    When the abuse takes a toll, all the people putting pressure will not be seen around you.
    The last day you would see most of them is on your wedding day to eat your food!

    As my wife would always says, you will live with your choice!

    10. Personal information

    Lastly, abusers can often resort to using your personal information and secrets against you and to control you.

This is why you have to beware of people who are always asking for your nude pictures.

    Why would a person who claims to be a child of God be asking for your nude pictures?

    There is something perverse about that.
    Is it to masturbate or what? Or to sell the pictures?

    Young ladies, don’t ever send you nude pictures to anyone in the name of love. 

    He would eventually use your pictures to manipulate and control you, and when you call his bluff, you would find your nude pictures all over the internet. 

    Several young girls have committed suicide when they couldn’t bear with the shame of having their nude pictures and videos all over the internet. 

    So, don’t ever make that mistake. 

    Remember the scripture we saw earlier?

    Your souls has escaped like a bird out of the snare of the flower!

    Fly away from all demonic and manipulative relationships. 

    Pro 6:5 (KJV)  

    Deliver thyself as a roe from the hand of the hunter, and as a bird from the hand of the fowler.

    Cut of that relationship where you are being oppressed.

Let the wrong person go so that the right person can show up!

I pray that God will grant you more understanding!

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