MORE Questions To Ask Him When He Looks Like Mr.Right

  • Yesterday, we started looking at this topic, Questions To Ask Him When He Looks Like Mr.Right.
     
    Today, we will be concluding by looking at more questions. 


     
    These questions are not the ultimate deciders, but just to simply guide you on how to engage a prospective lover, and they are better asked before falling head over heels in love.


     
    Once you fall in love, the reasoning capacity to tender questions becomes weak, judgements are beclouded and love shields from reality. Click To Tweet 


     
    It is even worse when jeru trip is involved, the capacity to ask questions is dead, the mind becomes convoluted, intricately folded into confusion weaves. 


     
    This confusion of the soul, often works in consonance with soul ties, and it can really make a person take the unwisest decisions ever, only to start regretting later. 


     
    Ladies, never proceed into a love adventure without asking questions, for after you have started, the power to ask resets to zero, because his pursuit is over, value diminishes and the hunter in him hangs the bow and arrow. 
He now owns you!
     
    Let’s wrap this up today by looking at five more areas to ask questions. 

     
    6. Mentors


     
    Does he have mentors? Who are his mentors? 

If he doesn’t have mentors before now, why?


     
    Is it more of ignorance on mentoring benefits or defiance and arrogance on needlessness of mentoring?


     
    This has to be sorted. 


     
    Assuming he never had, is he willing to get one?


     
    In his response being a Yes, is it a quick answer because he quickly wants to get past your questions or is he genuine in his response?


     
    This is where you need the Holy Spirit to read in-between the lines, to trust God to help you expose any lying and deceptive spirit.
     
    

If he says No, he doesn’t need a mentor, then you should know there would be issues.
     
    He is not ready to take counsel, he is averse to authority figures over him.


     
    The issues is when he misbehaves, who do you report him to? Selah


     
    7. Habits
     
    

What are his habits?


     
    Be specific and ask directly.


     
    Do you drink? 


     
    Do you smoke?


     
    Do you club?


     
    If the answers to the above is in the affirmative, you obviously are not on the same page.


     
    2Co 6:14 (MSG)  
    Don't become partners with those who reject God. How can you make a partnership out of right and wrong? That's not partnership; that's war. Is light best friends with dark?
     
    There is nothing to pray about, there is not need to pray that God would change him for you, because nothing can happen until he makes up his mind.


     
    If he says no, he doesn’t do all of these and then you discover later, run for your dear life.


     
    Run because he has the capacity to be untruthful.
     
    Insincerity and adultery are cousins! They hang out together. Click To Tweet 


     
    If he says, yes, but he would change later after wedding, he is unlikely to change!

 Marriage is not a change agent.
     
    Also, be careful of those who want to change because of you, not because they feel it is wrong. They would go back there later!
     
    Also, be careful of people who say you should change them. You cannot change anybody, you are not the Holy Spirit.
     
    

8. Jeru Trip 


     
    What is his disposition to jeru trip before marriage?
     
    

If he believes there is nothing wrong with it, he is more or less telling you that he would defile you before wedding day.


     
    He is already telling that he would put pressure. 


     
    Nothing is as frustrating as loving the man that doesn’t love God.


     
    Nothing is as agonizing to have given your heart to a man who has not given his heart to God. Click To Tweet 



     
    9. Priorities 


     
    What are his priorities?


     
    Would he watch football instead of going to church on a Sunday?


     
    Believe you me, you don’t need such lukewarmness over your head!


     
    The fire in you will die slowly when your faith is constantly belittled, trampled and disregarded.
     
    

It can be frustrating to having to choose a man over God. That kind of relationship or marriage is packaged to fail from the very inception.


     
    10. Anger Issues
     
    

Finally, does he have anger issues?
     
    Everybody gets angry regularly, but there are dangerous levels of anger that is not healthy for a family.
     
    

Anger and foolishness walk hand in hand.


     
    An angry man would always take foolish decisions.


     
    Pro 14:17a (KJV)   

    He that is soon angry dealeth foolishly:...
     
    Pro 14:17a (MSG)  

    The hotheaded do things they'll later regret...
     
    As a matter of fact, the scriptures advises that you should not fall in love with an angry man.

     
    This is because an angry man is very much likely to revert to domestic violence.


     
    Pro 22:24 (KJV)  

    Make no friendship with an angry man; and with a furious man thou shalt not go
     
    

What if he has anger issues and he is working it? Then check for peace, if peace is there you can proceed. 


     
    However, the Bible minces no word about dealing with angry people.


     
    Angry people can murder their spouses.
     
    They can wipe out the family and then kill themselves.
     
    

I will like to stop here this morning. But I am sure you have enough stuffs to think on and meditate on.
     
    

It is almost a curse when a man pairs up with a wrong set of bones.


     
    It would bring pain and agony, in the inner crevices of the bones, in the very marrow.
     
    

Adam said, this is the bone of my bones….
     
    

I pray, you will find your bones and not another man’s bones!


     
    IN Ezekiel 37, something amazing happened.
     
    

Eze 37:7 (KJV)  

    So I prophesied as I was commanded: and as I prophesied, there was a noise, and behold a shaking, and the bones came together, bone to his bone.


     
    Bone came to his bone!


     
    I prophesy as I am commanded this morning, bone will come to his bone in your marital pursuit in Jesus name!


     
    This would be one of our prayers on THAT WHICH IS GOOD starting July 1st!


     
    God will show up for you in Jesus name!
     
    

Be blessed

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