How To Love Him Or Her Without Regrets

  • Before I go on, two important information.
     
    1. KHCPP - KHC Partners’ Prayers
    God spoke to me to start having a special time with our Partners and stand in agreement with them. Pastor Sophia and I would come online every first day of the month and we will agree with you in the place of prayers that as you constantly give and support this vision, God will grant unto you the deepest desires of your heart. So, we will have the first edition of KHC Partners' Prayers (KHCPP) on 1st of July, Saturday by 4.00pm GMT+1. We will be live steaming this prayer agreement on Instagram and Facebook. Make sure you are connected with us! God bless you all KHC Partners! If you have sent in any seed to KHC for June or July, make sure you link up with us as we agree with you! God will honor your seeds!

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2. T.W.I.G - That Which Is Good
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    Now, to today’s devotional
     
    1. Lovey-Dovey
     
    That word means “romantic.”
     
    Spirituality should never in any way disturb being a romantic lover, single or married.
     
    This has nothing to do with jeru trip.
     
    The synonyms of “romantic” include loving, amorous, passionate, tender, affectionate, lovey-dovey.
     
    Speaking in tongues should not disturb speaking sweet things to your lover.
     
    One is to God, the other is to your lover. After you have done the one for God, do the one for your lover as well.
     
    Let your relationship or marriage be characterized with expression of love.
     
    Be passionate towards him or her.
     
    Before wedding, “passionate’ does not include kissing, smooching, and jeru trip. Click To Tweet
     
    It includes calling regularly, doting on each other, praying for one another, sending loving (not vulgar or perverse) texts to each other (not sexting), buying each other flowers, chocolates, special gifts and doing memorable things together.
     
    After wedding, it includes all of the above and regular, consistent, jeru trip, as much as you want.
     
    Being romantic is not being full of lust.
     
    In the Old Testament, honeymoons last as long as one year!
     
    Deu 24:5 (KJV)
    When a man hath taken a new wife, he shall not go out to war, neither shall he be charged with any business: but he shall be free at home one year, and shall cheer up his wife which he hath taken.
     
    God wants you to enjoy each other!
     
    In the New Testament, God wants you to have honey moon for life! Enjoy every day of your married life!
     
    Sadly enough, by first week of most marriages, it is only the moon they can find, no honey! Click To Tweet
     
    That will not be your portion in Jesus name!
     
    The Bible clearly advocates that married couples enjoy themselves sexually and otherwise.
     
    Pro 5:18-19 (KJV)  
    Let thy fountain be blessed: and rejoice with the wife of thy youth.  [19]   Let her be as the loving hind and pleasant roe; let her breasts satisfy thee at all times; and be thou ravished always with her love.
     
    There is nothing wrong about fantasizing about your spouse! It is godly. Take a look at the Message Translation:
     
    Pro 5:18-19 (MSG)  
    Bless your fresh-flowing fountain! Enjoy the wife you married as a young man!  [19]  Lovely as an angel, beautiful as a rose— don't ever quit taking delight in her body. Never take her love for granted!
     
    2. Love Is Spelt As Time
     
    Spend time together and communicate!
     
    A man or woman especially in a relationship or marriage is always saying something, always speaking.
     
    It may be verbal or internal.
     
    Make sure you are verbalizing everything between each other.
     
    When you get internal, the devil can often bring confusion through assumptions.
     
    Assumption is the lowest form of knowledge.
     
    Keep talking.
     
    It is in the atmosphere of secrecy that adultery can be initiated. Click To Tweet
     
    Once you are open to your spouse, it becomes difficult to cheat on him or her.
     
    A lying heart is secretive by default.
     
    Spend time and talk! Bond together!
     
    Bond together to a point that a third party has no access.
     
    For singles in courtship, if you’ve not been communicating for days, I doubt whether you really love each other.
     
    How can he say he loves you and yet he has not called in three weeks, or you are the only one always calling while the other person is busy.
     
    Be careful lest you are just in love with yourself!
     
    Love communicates.
     
    Love gives. For God so LOVED the world that He GAVE…
     
    Love keeps in touch…daily.
     
    Love is thoughtful.
     
    Love is verbal.
     
    Love is not vindictive.
     
    Love is not continually bitter.
     
    Love is tender.
     
    Love is not violent.
     
    Love honours you and honours your God.
     
    Nobody proposes in silence and nobody says “yes” in silence. Click To Tweet
     
    Love is not silent!
     
    I will stop here this morning. I pray that God will give you more understanding in Jesus name! Be blessed!
     
    NB - Last Day To “THAT WHICH IS GOOD!” An Online intercession Program For Singles and Married. Learn more on how to participate HERE

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    CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
    I will love without regrets

    PRAYER FOR THE DAY
    Lord, grant my heart's desires in Jesus name 


    THOUGHT FOR THE DAY 
    Pro 5:19 (CEV)  
    She is beautiful and graceful, just like a deer; you should be attracted to her and stay deeply in love.

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