Fall Not In Love With These Seemingly Loving Lovers

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    God gave each of us a brain so that He can rest. There are some things you should not pray about. There are people you should not fall in love with and in case you do, the only reasonable thing for you to do is to disconnect from them.

     
    Don’t bother praying that God should approve your decision, which is clearly at loggerheads with His principles. God will not answer such prayers because He will not contradict His word.
     
    Here are the scenarios that don’t need prayers or fasting. Don’t waste your time on them.
     
    1. When you are in love with more than one person at a time
     
    There is nothing as confusing and as unwise than to fall in love with more than one person at a time! The person involved will be disoriented, de-focused and disorganised.
     
    You will become deceptive in order to cover up. Then you will need to tell more lies in order to cover up the cover-ups!
     
    God has not called you to this kind of lifestyle, and there is no way God will answer you when you start praying in such state of heart.
     
    The first thing to do is to disconnect from both or all of them, because in reality, it could be one of the people you have fallen in love with, or NONE of them!
     
    But when you asking God to approve what you have decided, something is wrong with that process and it doesn’t work that way! God is never mocked. Click To Tweet
     
    The same way, married people are to focus on their spouse only and not direct their love to anybody aside from their spouses.
     
    2. When you are in love with a married man or woman
     
    If you have found yourself to have fallen in love with a married person, it will be good for you to also try and rise out of that love as soon as possible.
     
    It just would not work!
     
    Oh Pastor, it is just that married people are more matured in their thinking and know how to take care of someone. Is that all? What about the heartache and the agony a side chick will cause the rightful owner of the man? What about the unnecessary warfare emanating from the rightful owner that would be entered into?
     
    When you are involved with a married person, chances are that you will soon be sexually involved, and that simply translates to adultery. It is a graduation into unimaginable afflictions both for the man and the woman involved.
     
    God will never answer those prayers when the prayer is indirectly saying that a person’s marriage should crash so that you can have your way! Adultery is a stupid sin, because one loses at the end! Click To Tweet
     
    But whoso committeth adultery with a woman lacketh understanding: he that doeth it destroyeth his own soul. (Proverbs 6:32 KJV)
     
    Here is the Message translation, which I like most
     
    Adultery is a brainless act, soul-destroying, self-destructive;
     
    3. When you are in love with an unbeliever
     
    When you have fallen in love with unbeliever, it is better you run away from such a person.
     
    It directly violates the principles of God and it is not just going to work out. Ok, you can say you will convert him later, but you are not the Holy Spirit. It is the Holy Spirit that convicts.
     
    You can say, he is so caring, he is this and that…but when the chips are down, an unbeliever is capable of doing anything because he is under an influence.
     
    Everybody you see on earth, is under an influence, and it can either be positive of negative! The reason you find it difficult to leave such people is because you have been sexually involved.
     
    A soul tie has been established and it should be broken in the name of Jesus.
     
    If you are married to an unbeliever, don’t give up easily, pray that God will touch your spouse.
     
    4. When you are in love with your Pastor who is married
     
    This one may sound ridiculous, but trust me, it happens everyday, I am a counsellor!
     
    A lot of ladies fall in love easily with their pastor because he is anointed and they listen to him every time. It is so easy to fall in love with your pastor, but when a Pastor who is married has fallen in love with you as well, it is better and wise to leave that church as soon as possible, because if you don’t, you will ruin yourselves!
     
    By the time he is making advances at you, you should find another church! There is a difference between a hireling and a pastor! Don’t bother to pray that God should work it out! Are you praying that God should kill the Pastor’s wife?
     
    If you have been sexually involved or manipulated by your pastor, leave that church. He might be a prophet or an apostle, if you are sleeping together, leave that church and leave that man!
     
    You say he is a spiritual father, he is married and yet sleeping with you? He is not a spiritual father; he is a spiritual nemesis! Run away! Click To Tweet
     
    Don’t bother praying. It is like both of you are sitting on a bomb, and it is better to disappear from that church! Don’t waste your time asking for His will. His will is clear, disconnect from such a relationship so that you not delay yourself in your marital journey!
     
    5. When you are in love with an abuser
     
    When you are love with one that beats you and then sleeps with you and you are not yet married, you don’t need to pray. You just need to pack your things and leave that guy alone!
     
    But Pastor, it is not easy! Okay, so it is easy to be beaten daily? And then be seen as a sex toy to satisfy the lust and the cravings of a depraved person who will not eventually marry you?
     
    Why subject yourself to such harrowing experiences? Common, free yourself as a bird and flee away! That is not God’s plan for your life!
     
    Psa 124:7 (KJV)  
    Our soul is escaped as a bird out of the snare of the fowlers: the snare is broken, and we are escaped.
     
    You can only pray in this scenario of you are already married, because God’s first option is not always divorce!
     
    I pray for you this morning and every area of your life where you need to make a decision in other to please God, God will strengthen you in Jesus name
     

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    CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
    I will fall in love appropriately
     
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    I come against the spirit of deception 


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    Psa 124:7 (MSG)  
    We've flown free from their fangs, free of their traps, free as a bird. Their grip is broken; we're free as a bird in flight.

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