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  • How To Break Ungodly Soul Ties And Make Progress


I have been trying to revamp our site’s look in the past few days and nights. I am still on it, and would soon be done, but already, you would have noticed some changes especially if you view though desktop. The Lord is my strength!

   Today, I will be rounding up our teachin...
  • Are You In An Emotionally Abusive Relationship?

    Yesterday, we looked at some signs of emotional abuse. We looked at 

   1. Your Individuality is in question 2. Unending Chastisement 
 3. False Accusation
 4. Blame Shift
 5. Withdrawal
 6. You are always in the wrong  7. Control over you finances

  • How To Know If You Are In An Emotionally Abusive Relationship


Emotional abuse is a weapon normally used to control and bring dominance upon the other person.   This is often because the abuser has past childhood wounds and insecurities the are still fresh, mostly because they were abused themselves.

   Do not cope with an...
  • Eighteen Love Capsules For Him and Her

    By Pastor Sophia   1. God must be the foundation of every relationship for it to last   The only reason any relationship will last is because God who is the only sure foundation, the rock upon which to build is the very foundation.
   2. Wisdom...
  • Words of Affirmation Versus Words of Criticism

    In the dynamics of love language, your silence or inaction is a language!   How do I mean? Love language has to do with something you say or do constantly.   When you do these things, you are speaking that love language.   Your partner or spouse hears som...
  • Finding and Keeping The Love of Your Life 102

    We started in this yesterday and we will just continue today.   Before we go on, here is an important info. We are introducing KHC CONVERSATIONS to you. This is Activity Hub for KHC. Any member can post once signed in. Everything good and godly goes on there. You can ask questions from...
  • Finding and Keeping The Love of Your Life 


    we will be looking at finding and keeping the love of your life. This is for singles and married. 1. Where to get a good wife   Pro 19:14 (AMP)  
 House and riches are the inheritance from fathers, but a wise, understanding, and prudent wife is from the Lord. &nb...
  • Dear Pastor, Is There A Way Out For Me? 

    There are times in life when everything seems not to be working.

   There are seasons in life when you almost begin to doubt if you will ever come though.

   There are marital problems that look like it ’s going to be forever.   There are marriages ...
  • My Lover Took Me Home But His Eyes Feasted On Me

    Here is a story of two lovers, of feasting, of eyes, of fainting  for love, of cradling, of encircling and of a warning.    1. The Strong Desires That Comes With Love 
   Son 2:3-7 (MSG)  
 As an apricot tree stands out in the forest, my lo...
  • Signs That She Does Not Love You

    By Pastor Sophia   It is not difficult to know if a lady really genuinely loves you.   At the same time, it is also not difficult to know if a lady does not love you. No matter how well or long she pretends, there will be certain signs that will point to the fact that s...
  • Signs That He Does Not Love You 

    There are several reasons a guy can hover around you or allow access into his life without loving you.

   One of such reasons is if he is getting jeru trip.   He simply wants that without any strings attached.   He wants the benefit of jeru trip withou...
  • Signs That She Is Really In Love With You

    By Pastor Sophia   Yesterday, my husband shared with us, signs to show that a man loves you.   I will be talking about some signs to show that a lady loves you.   If you are going out with a lady with marriage in view and you can't observe these signs, you...
  • Signs That He Is Really In Love With You

    Dear Pastor, how can I know that he is really in love?

   Well, you can know.   

It is so easy to know but we often close our eyes to the obvious signs. 

I am going to use myself as an example. 

   Ours is a typical campus lovebirds story.

  • How To Understand The Precious Lady In Your Life Part 2

    We started looking at this topic yesterday! We looked at the following points yesterday. 

   1. Understand her God
 2. Understand her Needs
 3. Understand her Language 
4. Understand her Pressures   We are going to continue with Part 2 today.  ...
  • How To Understand The Precious Lady In Your Life 

    All men should read this. Forward the links to all the men in your life via Facebook, Whatsapp and other social media. All the men; father, uncle, brother, husband, fiancé, and of course all the women who love them should read as well. 

   Many years ago, a man wrote a book on h...
  • Bone to His Bones and Flesh Upon The Bones 

    Today, I want to pray and bless you.

   I want to invoke the anchor scripture of this ministry over you and yours.

   If you are a member of KHC, and particularly if you are a partner, it is simply your heritage to partake of the blessings of the mandate. 

  • Qualities Every Lover Should Possess and Look Out For 

    I woke up fresh in the Holy Ghost this morning. I want to pray for you! 

   These words are not premeditated, I have not preached or taught them before, in fact this is the first time this morning I saw the verses like that, so I really want you to take note because these words are mea...
  • How To Run Away With Your Lover

    I was newly in courtship.

   She was my first love. And the last!   

Never have fallen in love with any other person in my life like I was in love!

   Our love seemed scripted in heaven. And so it was. And is still is!

   It was doing me ...
  • Beware When Capacity For Truth Is Lost!

    I have a message for you all this morning which I believe the Holy Spirit wants to communicate with you.
   I spoke along this line in church yesterday and the same scripture is still burning in my spirit. I believe somebody needs to hear this.   You can see the video ...
  • Ten Things God’s Word Will Do For Singles and Married

    God’s word is powerful. As a single or married couple, you should surround yourself with that word. Listen to tapes, read books, read it online, hear it in church, read it on KHC, and by all means, keep feeding your inner man. Your success and stature in life is predicated on your studious...
  • Stay Alive And Stay With God

    So the Lord blessed the latter end of Job more than his beginning: for he had fourteen thousand sheep, and six thousand camels, and a thousand yoke of oxen, and a thousand she asses. (Job 42:12 KJV)   You can’t wrap this up yet. It is just beginning! I know you are going through...
  • Go Ahead And Laugh 


   Yes!   Just go ahead and laugh at what you are going through 

   Hey, Pastor, you don’t really have an idea.

   Yes, that is the more reason I want you to laugh and keep your joy.

   When your life looks...
  • The Whistle of God Against Your Enemies 

    God is blowing the whistle!   Yesterday, we looked at the scripture:

   Zechariah 10:8 (MSG)  
 I'll whistle and they'll all come running. I've set them free—oh, how they'll flourish!

   Yes, God will whistle and that spouse will c...
  • When God Blows The Whistle In Your Favour!

    Wherever you spouse has been hiding that he has not come forth to propose, the whistle of heaven is about to blow!   He will have no choice but to show up!

   Zechariah 10:8 (KJV)  
 I will hiss for them, and gather them; for I have redeemed them: and the...
  • Dear Pastor, I Have Trust Issues With My Lover

    Here are four reasons why you should strive to be truthful and be a person of integrity in your relationship and marriage.   1. That is the way God wants it

 I strongly believe that God wants you to be a person who is truthful and sincere in all your dealings in life and with peop...
  • Will God Still Speak To Me?

    There is no doubt that God speaks to His people. For me, God spoke to me clearly while I was a student on the Campus as relating to relationships and marriage. God still speaks today. If you seek His face, He will speak to you!He is a speaking God. “Saith the Lord’ is found over eight hu...
  • Four things that marriage will not do for you

    Marriage in itself does not have much power beyond the two people involved and their relationship with God. What makes the marriage covenant effective is the personal relationship that both spouses have with their God.   For example, a man that has the fear of God and is conscious of the cove...
  • O Lord, Where is My Woman?

    Thinking aloud, Bob said, “O Lord, where is my woman?”   His friend Ade, looked at him, hissed and retorted, “Woman ko, Grandmother ni!’   

“Abeg, I no dey talk to you o”

   “You better not be talking to me and do...
  • O Lord, Where is Mr Perfect?

    “I am really tired of praying to God”   “Hey, don’t say that, Susan!”

   “I will say it again and again.”   

“But why? You are beautiful, you are active in church and everything seems to be going on we...
  • The True Love That Gives Birth To True Romantic Love

    My mum went home to be with the Lord, when I was only sixteen. 
But she ensured she led all of us to Christ and got us filled with the Holy Spirit. That was the greatest legacy she left behind. She was the woman I got my choleric temperament from.   She was a loving mother. ...