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This topic got my attention awhile ago and am responding based on my own opinion eventhough in my family only boys are married girls arent and am already in my late 30s but God's word is my sustenance.
As a child of God I refuse to allow fear or other people's experiences mar or rob me of God's blessings. The bible says John 8:36 "He whom the Son has set free is free indeed" .
First, I'll like to ask you: (1) Is there anything too hard for the Lord? (Ref: Jeremiah 32:27)(Ref. Rom. 4:17). (2) Do you trust in the Lord God Almighty?
About what you need to do:
(1) Get into the word of God and dim every thoughts and fears with God's word. (Jeremiah 33:3) (Mark 11:23). Research and meditate deeply on God's word.
(2) Serve God (Matthew 6:33), marriage is jara.
This is the spiritual aspect of it.
The physical aspect is working on your attitude and appearance.
Hope this helps. God bless you.