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I saw a lady's private part on his phone
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I was going through my boyfriend's phone last week suddenly I saw a picture of a lady's private part on his phone. I was shocked and I asked him about it but he said he copied it on someone's phone... Please, I need your advice and I want you to help me upload this for more advice.
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First of all, did you ask him why he copied it? I don't know whether you did but if you haven't, do that. He should delete the pic as well. It could be that he might be cheating on you. Is he a christian? Pray to God that he reveals to you if your boyfriend is the right man for you.
This post was edited by Phyllis Bart at September 26, 2015 10:43 AM CEST -
First and foremost you called him your boyfriend, so you have to get such from boyfriends, I don't see any reason why a man ready for marriage to be in such, does that mean that all men married or ready for marriage are saints? Not for one bit, what I'm saying is that your relationship is what I call "what you see is what you get" so define your relationship. That by the way, there' believers who are battling with one habit or another, I fought with porn addiction for years such that I hated myself, in it I could cover my tracks very well, this could be his case so go beyond the answers he gave you and talk with him to find out if he has an issue you could help him with by prayers and knowledge because that was what delivered me, knowledge. Porn addiction is more deadly than AIDS. So define your relationship and then you'll know how to help, for now he's your boyfriend just like every other male out there. God bless you -
hmmmm, I may wanna admit that no one is a saint, in one way or the other, due to our composition and exuberance, we once had to battle with urges and quest for knowledge about our body makeups, or our biology of sexes.
but as Christians, the bible never said we won't have to face the challenge but we were encouraged to flee ANYTHING that stimulates our sensual urges n thus leading into lust if tolerated.
And as u said, he is your boyfriend...,to me, dt shows the level at which the relationship is an where tis heading at, like some other people already said, don't you expect less from him. And u said u questioned how that pix came on his phone, and it ended there...,to me,it's either you're scared of him and so, u couldn't probe better. And from his response, he obviously wasn't remorse about his action and cares less how it makes you feel...,
first, I advise u get to know what it is u are into-friendship or relationship heading somewhere.
secondly, learn to question politely but with determination to get to the root of issues with your man.
thirdly, he could be battling with an addiction though,like one of the comments earlier posted,but its more of a privacy flaw,ppl into that addiction usually cover their tracks cos I once was there too. but for him leaving his tracks uncovered, u need more than just prayers, u might need to get into ur sprinters boots and pick race o. may the Lord guide us. -
Ask him why. I know that men in general may have this as a struggle but for those of us who are born again Christians we don't have to live by the dictates of our flesh. When we were baptized into Christ, we were baptized into His death and as He is now risen, we also have risen with Him into the newness of life (Romans 6). We are now dead to sin, but alive to God. Though our flesh may want to misbehave, we don't have to listen to it but rather we present our bodies God. It is very important that every believer in Christ knows this truth because it is the truth that sets us free. Share this with him.
This post was edited by Oladimeji Famuyiwa at September 26, 2015 9:06 PM CEST