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She doesn't want to start small

  • January 8, 2016 8:05 PM CET
    The lady i'm planning to propose to doesn't want to start small and the most annoying thing is that she compares me to other people especially her friend's husband to be. So I told her not to despise our little beginning or we call it a quit. Then she said am wicked and heartless. Please how am I wicked and heartless?
    • 212 posts
    January 18, 2016 1:05 PM CET

    She should not be comparing you with anyone. It is so easy to caught up in that comparism boat that we lose enjoying our mate. I need you to be sure you are not forcing her to marry you. I need to be sure she is proud of ypou. I know when we have friends who seem to be doing well,it is easy to compare but she must take a stand and support you. Id a lady ain't proud of you,aint't  supporting and motivating you,aint encoraging you and speaking life to you,I am sorry,I smell disaster and disatisfaction. So have a tlak with her and know your stand.