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Can we have jeru trip after traditional marriage .

  • January 13, 2016 8:51 PM CET
    Our church wedding is 3months after our traditional wedding and my fiance is saying after paying my bride price we will be having jeru trip but I said No until the church wedding. Please I want to know if we can go ahead after traditional wedding.
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    January 15, 2016 12:29 AM CET
    I say this from a background in law. There are two types of marriages, one is the Customary Law which in Nigeria is known as the traditional marriage and the second is under the Matrimonial Causes Act which is the signing of the registry. In so far as you have observed the native rights and customs, you are married (both families have accepted each other after all and you have been handed over to your husband and presented to the world as his wife) so it is perfectly legal and right to consummate the marriage.
    This post was edited by Osasu Elaiho at January 15, 2016 12:30 AM CET
  • January 15, 2016 7:29 AM CET

    The last time I check, It was "What God has joined together", NOT what law nor what custom/traditions has joined together.


    So, if you are both Christians, and you believe God should be the one that set you on the journey of marriage, by blessing you through his servant at the altar, then you should wait till the Church Wedding day. Honour God with you body (the bible says). As legal has it is for you after traditional marriage, honour God till He joined you together officially in His presence. Let God be the 3rd person that formed your threefold cord, that can't be broken.


    The journey is far (after marriage, and you will have all the way to yourself)... waiting for few months for Church Wedding, I don't think that can kill person lolz


    This post was edited by Olawale John Courtesy OLAGUNJU at January 15, 2016 7:30 AM CET
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    January 15, 2016 8:48 AM CET
    Good morning, are you saying that when there is no church wedding you are not fully married because I know that once both parents have accepted and gone ahead to pay and accept the dowry, she is married both in the eyes of man and God. The church wedding is more of a blessing if you take out the other ceremonies attached to it (am not saying the blessing is a bad thing or that she shouldn't wait till the Blessing(church)). There are a lot of couple who couldn't afford doing a church wedding because of the entertainment involved and they had to come to church some Sundays later after the trad for the blessing, are you saying she should have stayed back in her father's house till after the blessing before going home to her husband? (2). Is it compulsory a white wedding must be done in the church?
  • January 15, 2016 9:34 AM CET

    Smiles... Church wedding does not necessarily means printing IVs, picking a day, calling all the ppl to come chop... no oh.

    I've known several Holy Matrimony(s) done in the pastor's office. That's what i'm talkng about.

    If they are not looking at the elaborated type... fine. Just like I said; honour God (with ur body) till He joined you together officially in His presence.

    I can still repaste all I said earlier, here. 

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