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• Pastor Dunamis Okunowo

  

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  February 11, 2015 6:51 AM CET

  Dear KHCites, there is a lady who insists we must have Jeru trap before marriage that she needed to know what she is in for. I am a child of God and I don't want to compromise, but the pressure is mounting. She insisted she had to know that I am okay! What should I do?

• Awodutire Phillip

  

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  February 11, 2015 9:31 AM CET

  Say NO to that,no matter what....
• Nkemakolam Echebiri

  

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  February 11, 2015 12:49 PM CET

  She wants you to compromise, and thats out of the question. Get her to understand why you both can't do that. If she insists, then you'll have to end it.

• Marylizzy Ogwuadi

  

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  February 11, 2015 3:48 PM CET

  Pls don't give in to her pressure,the disadvantage is way more than d advantage if u give in. Talk to her so she can understand where u re coming from.
• Deleted Member

  

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  February 27, 2015 10:27 PM CET

  Haba! What are doing with someone who doesn't share your VALUES? What is the basis of the relationship? On what then was it built? What is bringing both of you together since you have opposing VALUES? The basis for relationship/marriage,is Shared VALUES,BELIEFS & GOALS. It is the height of stupidity,and foolishness to go into a relationship/marriage with someone who doesn't share your values,beliefs,and goals. IT WON'T WORK!
  
  
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• Bimbola Olumoba

  

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  March 2, 2015 3:14 PM CET

  1. You too do not share core values

  2. She values her opinion more than God's

  3. She is in for sexual satisfation.She probably does not love you

  No matter how ,uch you love a lady,let God be your number one. Infact if a man puts me before God,i would have a rethink because he does not value God

  My dear,if she insists run. There are many God-lovely ladies who deserve you.