February 5, 2016 10:59 PM CET
I said yes to him some months ago and everything has been fine, just for me to see some pornography films on his ipad passworded. I didn't ask him anything but have stopped picking his calls. Please I just want to know if am doing the right thing or I should just hear him out?
February 6, 2016 10:52 AM CET
I suggest you first hear him out on what he has to say about it. Because keeping quiet is like adding salt to the wound. First take about the issue and also findout about his spiritual life. You need to ask him alot of questions because ponography is an addiction and most of the times it even continues even up to marry.
If you still love him and are willing to settle down with him, then you need to help pray with him and for him, seek for counseling and guidance from your mentors or pastor inorder to break that addiction.
May the Lord grant u more wisdom.
February 6, 2016 11:52 AM CET
We bless God for his grace n I pray his grace will kp leading us aright. A closed mouth is a closed destiny. My sis, it is absolutely wrong to just cut off frm him, without reaching out for d salvation of his soul. While yet sinners, Christ died for us. Pls dnt let us take for granted d fruit of d spirit. Patience n love for d dying soul wch r sm of d xteristics of a true believer will let u nt ignore his calls but make him realise he must b of God wholeheartedly n shun all works of darkness. Now, dnt b mistaken pls. It doesn't mean u shud continue wit such a person. It's advisable u quit d relationship but do dt in luv. N b wise enuf to win his soul for Christ. God bless u real gud.
I said yes to him some months ago and everything has been fine, just for me to see some pornography films on his ipad passworded. I didn't ask him anything but have stopped picking his calls. Please I just want to know if am doing the right thing or I should just hear him out?
yes you are doing the right thing. I can tell you that if you eventually get married to that kind of man, that what he will be doing. So if he didnt stop it during courtship and you overlook it thinking he will change, you are on your own. Its a clear picture of the fact that the man is still an infant in Christ and an you need a man of God not "babe of God". You need to ask him questions, you need more careful. Even you need pray more, and be sure if God is one who said you both should be together. Dont let emotion and "love" becloud you. Oh! I love him, yes you do but at same time you have to be sensitive. You cant change any man but the Holy Spirit does. Prayerfully you have to seek a good counsellor
I suggest you first hear him out on what he has to say about it. Because keeping quiet is like adding salt to the wound. First take about the issue and also findout about his spiritual life. You need to ask him alot of questions because ponography is an addiction and most of the times it even continues even up to marry.
We bless God for his grace n I pray his grace will kp leading us aright. A closed mouth is a closed destiny. My sis, it is absolutely wrong to just cut off frm him, without reaching out for d salvation of his soul. While yet sinners, Christ died for us. Pls dnt let us take for granted d fruit of d spirit. Patience n love for d dying soul wch r sm of d xteristics of a true believer will let u nt ignore his calls but make him realise he must b of God wholeheartedly n shun all works of darkness. Now, dnt b mistaken pls. It doesn't mean u shud continue wit such a person. It's advisable u quit d relationship but do dt in luv. N b wise enuf to win his soul for Christ. God bless u real gud.