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• Akinbulu Oluwatomilola Oluwatomisin

  

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  February 26, 2016 10:36 PM CET

  My best friend has refused to move on, she told me because she was raped at a very tender age and that has caused her emotional trauma so she doesn't really want to even hear about a guy let alone of marriage. Please I love her and I want the best for her
  
• Nakiwala Dorothy

  

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  February 27, 2016 8:28 AM CET

  First of all, is she born again? If she is then what she needs to know is that Jesus died for all her sins and when she accepted him as lord and saviour, she is now a new creation.
  You need to tell her to set herself free and forgive that man that abused her at a tender age, that she maybe free from hatred and unforgiveness.
  You need to encourage her to seek counseling and she also understand that just because a man abused her before, it doesnt mean that they are all the same. She has to get rid of her past and move on.
  This post was edited by Nakiwala Dorothy at February 27, 2016 3:59 PM CET
• Bimbola Olumoba

  

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  February 29, 2016 11:17 AM CET

  well answered....check her in for counselling . A specialised counsellor in a emotional trama . Also pray for her daily if you really love her.