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How soon can I discuss my past with my partner?

  • May 30, 2016 6:47 AM CEST
    Our relationship started about a month ago and he seems to be the angel of my life and a dream come through. The issue is that I have a very rough past and has led to other things. I don't want to keep anything from him but I'm scared it could put him away from me. Please when should I discuss my past with him?
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    May 30, 2016 1:24 PM CEST
    May I ask what type of relationship you have with this guy. Just a relationship or you are in courtship that is most likely to end up in marriage? Personally I feel a month is too early to start discussing some very sensitive part of your past with him in an ordinary relationship. It's just a month and it's likely you are still in a tripping and excited mode. Take more time to be friends and know yourselves better. But if you are in courtship, then you may need to tell him your past that may cause problems in the future if he gets to know later but there is also a time for that. You can talk to a matured Christian to counsel you on this matter.
    This post was edited by Blessed Babe at May 30, 2016 1:35 PM CEST