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He's fond of monitoring me

  • June 29, 2016 7:28 AM CEST
    We've been in relationship for sometime now and recently he decided to propose marriage but I'm having a different perspective about the whole thing because he doesn't allow my phone to rest whenever we are not together, he keeps calling to know where I am, who I'm with or some other embarrassing questions. Please could this be love or lack of trust?
    • 194 posts
    June 29, 2016 9:30 AM CEST
    <p>If these calls and questions go over board and do trouble you, then you need to let him know you disapprove of it.</p>
    <p>It shows a lack of trust and insecurity on his part. </p>
    <p>Let him understand 1 cor 13....True love believes, trusts, not selfish...and perfect love cast out all fears.</p>
    <p>Tell Him if he loves you, he should be at rest, because his overprotectiveness can have negative impact on the relationship.</p>