September 10, 2016 6:45 AM CEST
We've been together since our undergraduate days and everything has been going smoothly. After our NYSC he got a job while I was still trusting God for a job but I decided to engaged myself in fashion designing while trusting God for a job. Few weeks ago as I was chatting with my boyfriend he told me he's sorry as he don't think he can marry me if I don't have a job and besides he can't introduce me formally to his parents as a fashion designer. So I should move on with my life but honestly speaking I laughed at him because of his myopic vision even though its painful but i've choose to move on with my life. Any word of encouragement will be appreciated. Thank you.
September 19, 2016 12:31 PM CEST
You've said it all. I wonder how come you both haven't talked about this before now.
Anyway, deciding not to marry you because you haven't gotten a white-collar job is just a silly excuse to leave you. He had no conviction about you. He probably needed to end the relationship.
Pls thank God for allowing him reveal himself now.
Ensure you learn your lessons and God will give you your husband.
We've been together since our undergraduate days and everything has been going smoothly. After our NYSC he got a job while I was still trusting God for a job but I decided to engaged myself in fashion designing while trusting God for a job. Few weeks ago as I was chatting with my boyfriend he told me he's sorry as he don't think he can marry me if I don't have a job and besides he can't introduce me formally to his parents as a fashion designer. So I should move on with my life but honestly speaking I laughed at him because of his myopic vision even though its painful but i've choose to move on with my life. Any word of encouragement will be appreciated. Thank you.
You've said it all. I wonder how come you both haven't talked about this before now.