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How do I address the matter?

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    September 30, 2016 3:47 AM CEST
    I remember looking for a particular document that made me scatter the whole house, searching room to room.
    On getting to my sons room, who is just 9 years old by the way, I found numerous pornographic magazines in his room.
    I was speechless and so was my wife.
    I don't even know how to address the matter.
    • 194 posts
    September 30, 2016 6:38 PM CEST
    Hmmm, I am surprised your wife hasnt come across them while cleaning that room. May be it was well hidden.
    Personally this is what I would do.
    1. Discipline him in several ways seriously (flogging, punishment)
    2. Afterwards, comfort him and soothe his hurts.
    3. Have a deep sincere conversation to know the source of the magazines and influences around him
    4. Ensure such influences are cut off
    5. Preach/Talk/Counsel him against it, hloyghost helping me.
    6. Pray for him, pray for his salvation.
    7. Draw closer to him and monitor him closely.

    God will save our children. AMEN