October 18, 2016 6:31 AM CEST
We've been together for two and half years now and obviously planning to get married.
I have a son, who is 4years old now but I don't know how to tell her.
I fear she may quit the relationship if she knows and I don't want that to happen.
I also feel its not too good not to tell her about it.
Or should I tell her after marriage?
October 18, 2016 12:09 PM CEST
It'll be very selfish of you to not tell her. Who says she won't quit the marriage if you tell her after marriage? Then you would become a divorcee and also cause her to become one. Pray that God would give you the boldness and just carefully sit her down and tell her. Of course, she'll be upset you didn't tell her before now but it'll be better than later. If she leaves afterwards, you'll be fine and she'll be fine too. But you gotta give her a choice.
We've been together for two and half years now and obviously planning to get married.
It'll be very selfish of you to not tell her. Who says she won't quit the marriage if you tell her after marriage? Then you would become a divorcee and also cause her to become one. Pray that God would give you the boldness and just carefully sit her down and tell her. Of course, she'll be upset you didn't tell her before now but it'll be better than later. If she leaves afterwards, you'll be fine and she'll be fine too. But you gotta give her a choice.