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She buys me gifts.

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    October 28, 2016 7:55 AM CEST
    I have a female colleague who keeps buying me gifts virtually every weekend.
    Hardly will a Friday pass by without me going home with "goodies".
    Initially, I was happy, thinking that's their way of treating corp members in their office.
    I however became concerned when all the gifts were coming from just one person.
    The climax was last week.
    When I got home and opened the package, I saw singlets, boxers, comb, nail cutter etc.
    This is getting personal, just that I don't know how to tell her to stop, because she's a senior colleague.
    • 194 posts
    November 3, 2016 10:02 AM CET

    Sit her down, and ask her to tell you why she showers you with the gifts.

    let her know, you dont see it as a normal thing and you feel its kind of inappropriate, hence your need to know her reasons.