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I still want to hustle

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    November 23, 2016 6:29 AM CET
    I'm a young entrepreneur pursuing my dreams.
    Everything has been going fine between us until she started pressuring me for marriage.
    We are just 3 years in courtship.
    Not that I don't want to get married, but as a man, I want to make some more money before settling down.
    If I'm unable to meet family needs, she's still the one who will complain in the end, so why not allow me make the money?
    • 194 posts
    November 23, 2016 9:07 AM CET

    I totally understand bro. Please 3 yrs is not "just". She definitely has her reasons too.

    I advice you sit yourself down, have a reasonable and realistic plan and timeline. Communicate this plan to her, persuade her to buy into it. Then you should both prayerfully agree and commit to it.

    Also dont try to carry all the burden alone, if you talk to her, she might be willing and very able to help.

    Just understand her reasons, communicate, be realistic with your plan.