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Have you taken some time to individually pray and be broken?
You both need some time away to pray and get on your feet back. If you can get past it personally then you will be able to overcome together.
Also, Dont let the devil hold you back in your thoughts, He will consistently want to haunt you and keep replaying it in your mind.
Rebuke him continuously and overcome him with the scriptures. Get the scriptures proclaiming your confession, repentance, cleansing and victory in christ.
Speak them as often as the thoughts arise. As you engage in these things and seek God's love more, the guilt and fear will be taken away.