November 29, 2016 10:19 PM CET
This is the type of man that makes orders, and expect his wife to follow suit. If he says don't go there, he expects you to Obey him and follow him.
Before you married your husband, you would have known which he is.... If he is the bossy man and your intentions are to change him after marriage, then you would most likely get frustrated. Accept him for who he is, cherish him and celebrate him as the helper you have been called to.
Now m don't go thinking that you have to stoop so low just to fulfill the needs of your husband or feel inferior. No. It s just fulfilling the rightful role you have been placed .
And I tell you, the moment you start honouring and referencing your husband, the more he would treat you like the queen you are.
The Bossy man is the one who makes orders in the home, he coordinates the house.
As a wife, help meet to him, you should know this is your type of man and follow suitly. When you obey him, give him the honour he requires, then you are obeying God word by honouring your husband.
Everybody keeps looking at you, why you just submit to your husband just like that, no issues or setbacks. I tell you, because you have understood your role in his life and ready to meet that need, you would live in peace and enjoy a joyous marriage. Just like pastor Dunamis said in yesterday's devotional, learn to avoid small things that can cause arguments.
Bible says in
Ephesians 5:22-33King James Version (KJV)
22 Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord.
23 For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body.
24 Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing.
In everything, submit to him, when he is bossy, rude, insensitive, forgot your birthday.
Live by the bible, not by the world...,Many people would try to drag you down, but you need to be strong and live peaceably with your husband.
Sooner or later, you become his confidant adviser, discussion partner, making decisions and enjoying your marriage .
Ladies, see wisdom is need in this affair of marriage. The earlier we ask God for it, the better for us.
James 1:5King James Version (KJV)
5 If any of you lack wisdom, let him ask of God, that giveth to all men liberally, and upbraideth not; and it shall be given him.
Ask of God, to give you wisdom in your marriage, he has all the answers and he would gladly give you the wisdom needed.
If you decide to struggle with the Bossy man, like I said you get frustrated and if he is not the born again christian who doesn't understand that marriage is for life, he would probably leave you and find somebody else ready to listen to him and follow his leading.
The Bossy man is like a King, once you give him the respect, honour and love that he wants, he showers you with his affection in return.
Wisdom, patience and a gentle spirit are qualities we should ask God from. To make us fulfill the role he has called us to as Help meet.
I pray God to help us all...
Remain Blessed!
This is the type of man that makes orders, and expect his wife to follow suit. If he says don't go there, he expects you to Obey him and follow him.