December 1, 2016 10:59 PM CET
Out of our series; the Final one today is the Stable man! This is the most preferred out of the 3. Wives of bossy men always envy the Wives of Stable men; That they are lucky because their husband is cool and collected. Even the Visionary wives wishes their husband can be as stable as this man and not too spontaneous .
But whoever your man is! Accept and celebrate him for who he is, such that their strength is renewed and blown into full strength.
The stable man is one wih is calm, collected and needed everywhere. He might not be in the front view but he is committed to a fault such that everybody knows this and he is needed everywhere. As a wife , you would have to be very patient, because almost everybody needs him.
When you get a time out together, forget the phones purposely at home.
The stable man gentleness and behavior is his strength, makes him think and harness wisdom to make decisions that are worthwhile.
A wife to the stable man has to have the qualities of the virtuous woman as described in proverbs 31. Just a few verse from it...
10 Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies.
11 The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her, so that he shall have no need of spoil.
12 She will do him good and not evil all the days of her life.
13 She seeketh wool, and flax, and worketh willingly with her hands.
14 She is like the merchants' ships; she bringeth her food from afar.
15 She riseth also while it is yet night, and giveth meat to her household, and a portion to her maidens.
16 She considereth a field, and buyeth it: with the fruit of her hands she planteth a vineyard.
The stable man like his wife to be independent , resourceful and an achiever. He cheers her on, and applauds her for her achievements. He is proud of her , and like the fact that she is resourceful. She keeps him also in check.
He might not be the everyday nice guy, he might have times of being rude to you, insensitive, shouts at you etc Two wrongs cannot make a right.
Learn to always be a delight to him, and please him. Don't let it get to you. In times when he doesn't seem to make sense ladies....
Remember your honouring him, is not a factor of how well he treats you or if he deserves it. Wisdom would tell you to honour him at all times, fulfilling your Godly role as an help meet.
God would look down at you and smile , because you are honouring him in return.
Yes, It might not be easy...But bible says in philipians 4:13. ' I can do all things through Christ that strengthens me. The Holy Spirit in us , would help and renew our minds such that we can lilac cording to the dictates of God, and not Blaspheme his word. .
Our men usually are a combination of one of these 3 men, but there is always a predominant trait.
In conclusion , Let your respect, reverence and honour to your husbands come from your heart as believers of the word, obeying the commandments of God. As dictated in Ephesians 5.
Not based on if he treats you right , or how he is behaving. Play your part, and fulfill your role dutifully.
As said in the above verse in proverbs 31
12 She will do him good and not evil all the days of her life.
ALL THE DAYS OF HER LIFE, SHE WOULD DO HIM GOOD.
1 Peter 3King James Version (KJV)
3 Likewise, ye wives, be in subjection to your own husbands; that, if any obey not the word, they also may without the word be won by the conversation of the wives;
Conversation here means...Conduct, behavior of the wife, can win the brother over.
As women, we have strong powers on our men, Bible says we can win them over...
Have not seen where it was said that the men can win the women over...
So ladies, be wise, be smart, know your man, keep your home, Keep your man...
Remain Blessed!
Out of our series; the Final one today is the Stable man! This is the most preferred out of the 3. Wives of bossy men always envy the Wives of Stable men; That they are lucky because their husband is cool and collected. Even the Visionary wives wishes their husband can be as stable as this man and not too spontaneous .