Forums » Men's Forum

Should I end the relationship?

    • Moderator
    • 865 posts
    January 3, 2017 6:05 AM CET

    I was recently going through my fiancée phone and got to her message folder, so I decided to check her inbox.
    I have never done this before, so I wasn't expecting anything shocking.
    I saw a message from a guy, telling her how much he misses her and all. To me, this is normal. An average girl gets "toasted" virtually everyday.
    However, I was shocked when I read her reply. She affirmed that she misses him too and all those lovey lovey talk.
    I also discovered that they've been chatting this way for 2 months now and she never mentioned it to me.
    Should I ask her or end the relationship?
    • 35 posts
    January 4, 2017 11:54 AM CET
    Well I'd think that classifies as cheating, doesn't it? Yes you can ask her but I personally wouldn't hold my breath about her.
    • 194 posts
    January 4, 2017 3:51 PM CET

    I guess its obvious. But still ask her...just for the records. If true, you both should take a break from that relationship.