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How do you handle her?

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    January 27, 2017 10:45 PM CET
    How do you handle an ex who has refused to see her self as one?
    She still Calls, texts and sometimes pay unannounced visits to my place.
    I've reduced communication to the bearest minimum, yet, she's still pestering me.
    This post was edited by Sylvester Obinna at January 27, 2017 10:47 PM CET
  • January 28, 2017 2:06 PM CET
    Call her and invite her to tell her to face that she should live you alone, in presence of someone who can bear witness and help you out.
    Moreover, prayer is the best key.
    • 35 posts
    January 28, 2017 3:54 PM CET
    Good job for reducing communication to the barest minimum! The most important thing is to go to her-in an open place of course, tell her curtly but respectfully that it's over, and she needs to move forward with her life. She'll probably make mention of being friends, let her know that's fine. When next she comes, don't attend to her. Don't respond to messages and don't take calls! Imagine you're married or engaged to another person, what would you do with your ex?
    • 8 posts
    June 28, 2017 9:35 AM CEST
    mbok, call her in the presence of a friend you both know and you trust and tell her plainly: it is over.
    girls that are insistent like dis one spell trouble. cut off all ties. no to the idea of 'just friends'