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Should I look for another?

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    February 13, 2017 6:02 AM CET
    My ex is into event management and she's good at it.
    My wedding is in six months time. My fiancée was even the one who suggested we get an event Manager to help out. Not only that, she suggested my ex,because they are friends.
    Though my ex and I are on good terms, I don't feel totally comfortable with the idea.
    Should I go with her Suggestion or look for another event Manager?
    • 35 posts
    February 13, 2017 12:01 PM CET
    Personally, I would not hire an ex for anything that'll keep us in close contact.

    Even if your fiancé suggests it, let her know you don't feel comfortable with the idea of bringing the past into the present. Your ex might not mean any harm now or even later, but "the heart of man is desperately wicked".
    Set and uphold boundaries now so you won't start trying to do that later in the future and your fiancée can trust your judgment more. God bless!