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Check out my version of what your fiance may be saying " My fiancee wants an elaborate wedding while I have wanted a quiet wedding. it hurts so much that she doesn't want to make me happy. What can I do to convince her?""
My advise: It will be very selfish of both of you to demand that your own type of wedding should be done. Both of you should have a discussion on this matter and elighten each other on the reason of your choice. After all the discussion, you both need to come to a compromise, you may need to come a bit down while your fiancee a little up and resolve to have a moderate wedding. Having a moderate wedding will give both of you a WIN-WIN feeling.
Marriage is about compromising to make your spouse happy. The only time when compromise is not allowed in marriage is when it goes against the will and word of God.
one need to pray before embarking on anything in life.... maybe ur fiance has prayed over it or he has been warned not to alaborate it and our destiny is totally differ who know know maybe hes not the lousy type you guys needs to come to an agreement so as not to regret it later in life.
If I were you I'd let him be the husband from the beginning. The question is: will you be ok if he goes elaborate only to tell you at home, after the wedding, that the family can't feed? Ofcourse, NO! He is the one marrying you, let him marry you the best way he can as long as it isn't going contrary to divine principle.