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    • 6 posts
    August 18, 2015 10:09 AM CEST

    IS OK TO MARRY SOMEONE YOU ARE OLDER THAN WITH ABOUT 5YRS DIFFERENCE OF AGE AS A LADY

    • 212 posts
    August 18, 2015 11:25 AM CEST

    Would the age affect the way you respect him?

    Would you gladly take counsel from him without contempt?

    Would you be able to submit to his leadership?

    Women are known to be mature than men of their age both in looks and in relating. This may make you mummy him without even knowing.Mummying a man could make him begin to abdicate his responsibilities to you. You need to be able to sit down and look at 20 years from now.

     

    On the other hand

    Has he proven to be able to lead you?

    Has he shown excellent decision making?

    Is he emotionally stable?

    Do not base you decision of the butterflies you feel but on logical reasoning.

    May God help you in Jesus's name . Amen

     

  • August 25, 2015 6:56 AM CEST
    I think,psychologically, it's a huge task. except on very rare cases n wt God's direct leading.I believe submission is key but I support a one or two yrs age diff n not more.besides,it shd be their confidentiality either ways.