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Dangers Of Being In Friendship With Your EX Part 2

I wrote the first part of this devotional about ten days ago and I will be writing the part two today. If you missed the first part, you can read HERE
 
 
1. You are not my enemy but I don’t have to be friends with you
 
A friend is one who with whom you have a bond of mutual affection. You have a special feeling not just a regular feeling for such person.
 
You call yourself a friend with someone, you have to care about that person, reach out to the person, be there for the person whenever you can. Another key thing to note here is that it has to be mutual. It can’t be one sided.
 
Philippians 2:4 “Do not merely look out for your own personal interests, but also for the interests of others.
 
This is what a friend would do. Are you ready to give yourself an heartache by maintaining a bond of mutual affection with an EX ?
 
2. It becomes more difficult to move on
 
If you are still in a box of maintaining a bond of mutual affection with your ex, it becomes more difficult to move on. It is only natural to want to think about someone that was a part of your life before and has now become a past.
 
When you now give room for friendship, you are restricted from moving on easily.
 
No matter how hard you might try, especially if there has been a soul tie with your ex, it becomes difficult for you to move on.
 
Why be in this kind of bondage when you can easily be set free by choosing not to be enemies and at the same time, not maintaining a bond of affection.
 
3. “Learn to let go”.
 
Most times one person is usually hurt than the other. Especially if you have been cheated on or the other decides to leave for no tangible reason. But the thing is, if you are a child of God, the fact still remains that the other person left because he/she wasn’t going to be good for you.
 
No good would probably have come out of the relationship, if he didn’t leave now; he was going to leave later. So it is even better for you because, he just saved your time.
 
Colossians 3:13 :
Bearing graciously with one another, and willingly forgiving each other if one has a cause for complaint against another; just as the Lord has forgiven you, so should you forgive.
 
4. Your ex should be an experience that you learn from to make your next relationship work.
 
As a child of God , no one should find it fun to always want to have so many exes, or move from one guy to another.
 
That is why when our minds have been renewed, we have the ability to attest that which is good or bad. But the deed has been done , he/she is now an EX.
 
Be very sensitive to the major things that caused the breakup.
 
Was it your fault?
 
Was it a misunderstanding issue?
 
Try to figure it all out and be deliberate about this.
Lay it all to God, trust God in this process and then find out practical ways to make your next relationship work out.
 
I must add at this point that because you just got out of a relationship, the next thing you want to do is to get into a new relationship to get back at your ex or to follow the same routines you did with your ex. You have to be patient, sensitive and very alert.
 
Here are some reasons why people are still friends with their ex;
 
1. False hope of getting back together; “There is a chance”
 
2. Out of pity
 
3. To monitor the ex-to check if they have moved on or they are happy
 
4. Because of what you can gain from them- friends with benefit, especially when there’s been sexual involvement
 
CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I have the ability to let go and move on from every past hurt.
 
PRAYER FOR THE DAY
Lord, help me to see me just the way you see me so that I may function in that grace all the days of my life.
 
THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
Psalms 133:1 “Behold, how good and pleasant it is when brothers dwell in unity”
 
ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Learn to dwell in unity with everyone; even those who have hurt you, forgive wholeheartedly, just as Christ forgave you.
 
BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
James 4:11

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