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Dear Lover, Stop Jumping Into Conclusions

Have you ever had an issue with a friend of yours, only to find out much later that what you thought was the issue wasn't even the issue in the first place?
 
 
Like it wasn't even in the radar of the quarrel.
 
Yeah, it has happened to me on several occasions. I have gotten offended over what some friends of mine have done only to find out, after talking with them, that they really didn't mean it the way I had assumed it to be.
 
If you are like me, then you will understand what I mean by "jumping into conclusions."
 
This can lead to a broken relationship or even a broken marriage.
 
Bae sees boo talking to a certain girl and assumes there must be something going on.
 
Bae reads all the signals that aren't even there and suddenly her brain goes into overdrive, and she starts replaying scenes in her head that the devil has taken his time to put together.
 
Boo sees a certain message on Bae's phone and assumes that it must be from the guy he saw her with some days back.
 
You know, all these issues would have been resolved if both partners had taken out time to talk to each other about it.
 
Stop assuming and stop jumping into conclusions about anything in your relationship. If you don't like the way Bae or Boo spoke to you, just tell him or her.
 
If you are not comfortable with the way he replied your chat on WhatsApp, ask him why.
 
There is no need to brood over it and start judging why he or she did what he or she did.
 
This brooding can cause a drift between both partners. It is one of the major causes of strife in relationships.
 
And guess what the scriptures say about strife.
 
James 3:16 KJV
For where envying and strife is , there is confusion and every evil work.
 
Yeah, you read that right. Strife has the capacity to cause confusion and all kinds of evil work in your relationship.
 
Ask the Holy Spirit to teach you how to communicate sensitive issues to your partner.
 
Ask the Holy Spirit to help you to stop jumping into conclusions.
 
Stop brooding over an action of your lover's that you are not comfortable with and just ask him or her what he or she meant by the text or the response.
 
Leave the job of brooding for the Holy Ghost and stop jumping into conclusions.
 
May the Lord grant you more understanding in Jesus name.
 
CONFESSION OF THE DAY
Thank you Lord for you grant me wisdom for proper communication with my lover.
 
PRAYER FOR THE DAY
Lord, help me to stop jumping into conclusions.
 
THOUGHT OF THE DAY
Jumping into conclusions is dangerous for your relationship.
 
ACTION PLAN OF THE DAY
Decide today to always be open and sincere about your feelings or thoughts with your lover.
 
BIBLE READING OF THE DAY
James 3:16 KJV
For where envying and strife is , there is confusion and every evil work.
 

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