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Dear Pastor, What Should I Watch Out For In A Man?

There are ladies and there are ladies. Every lady has her reasons for commitment. Some end up getting married for all the wrong reasons.
 May that never be your story!
This morning, I want to quickly give you three things every lady watches out for in a man before she makes up her mind.
I don’t think handsomeness is uppermost in the mind of the people. Sincerely, because when you look back at wedding pictures, you really just wonder why ladies could make up their mind for such men by the way they looked.
You see, there is something every lady has. It is called intuition. Another word for it is perception. Ladies have the ability to perceive.
"The woman saith unto him, Sir, I perceive that thou art a prophet." (Joh 4:19, KJV)
A lady must be able to perceive and sometimes see beyond what the man looks like.
A lady should be able to look farther and know that there is something about this man even though he doesn't look like it now.

I want my husband to be very handsome and anointed like Pastor Dunamis. TDH! Tall, dark and handsome! Well, that is a great desire, but do you know what Pastor Dunamis looked like some twenty-two years ago when I proposed?
I am sure I didn't look like it and I often say if I were my wife, I would not marry me!

But she could perceive!

A lot of ladies have missed a great opportunity because they could not perceive. They judged tomorrow by today.
"Lo, he goeth by me, and I see him not: he passeth on also, but I perceive him not." (Job 9:11, KJV)
I pray for you from today, you will be able to perceive. You will have a perception in Jesus name! You will know the right person in Jesus name!
What do ladies watch out for or what should ladies watch out for? Let’s take a look.
1. Purpose
The first thing is purpose. Is there purpose? Discovery of purpose is so crucial to a successful marriage.
"Before I formed thee in the belly I knew thee; and before thou camest forth out of the womb I sanctified thee, and I ordained thee a prophet unto the nations." (Jer 1:5, KJV)
Can you see there that purpose precedes creation? That is how powerful it is!
Before you make up your mind, before you give your heart, before you walk down the aisle, be sure he is a man of purpose.
If he is a man or purpose, he will not lead you wrong. If there is no purpose, it is like entering what we call “one chance” in Nigeria.
May you not join a vehicle that is going nowhere.
How do you know if someone is man of purpose or not? You will know from his utterances, his words, his actions, his disposition to work, his attitude, his body language and so on.
Words will always betray the heart.
Words are portrait pictures of what is in the heart.
Pro 25:11 (KJV)  
A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in pictures of silver.
2. Prosperity
The next thing is prosperity! Prosperity? Yes, but I mean prosperity in the heart!

There is a way a man would have nothing and yet you could see prosperity in his heart and there is a way a man may have a car and a house and yet you could see he would lose it soon.

Prosperity is first of all in the heart before it becomes physical prosperity.
"Beloved, I wish above all things that thou mayest prosper and be in health, even as thy soul prospereth." (3Jn 1:2, KJV)
There are rich men on the way to being broke and there are broke men on the way to prosperity. You should be able to perceive.
Thee could be different scenarios.
He has a good job and yet will never give anything.
He has a good job, gives a lot, but his givings are like tools, to get what he wants.
He doesn't have a good job yet, and he gives nothing, not even a piece of chocolate! He's filled with excuses that there is no money.
He doesn't have a good job yet, but he could give his eyeballs out.
He has a good job, has a great heart anf gives with no strings attached.
Each of these scenarios is saying something. You have to be wise and discerning and be able to perceive.

3. Passion
Lastly is passion.
Passion for God!
Is he passionate for the things of God? Does he love God? If he loves God truly, he will love you as well.
Beware it is not a temporary passion in other to get you! You see, you perceive with your heart, not with your eyes!
No godly lady wants to hook up with a man that will ruin her faith in God.
Every godly lady wants to hook up with a man that will take their faith to the next level. Men that are God lovers are men that would go places!

I pray for you this morning, God will lead you and guide you in the way you should go in Jesus name.

You will not miss it. You will take heed to the voice of God and the voice of the stranger you will not hear in Jesus name!
God will be with you!
I love you BIG!

I will not be confused
Lord, open my eyes!
Pro 25:11 (KJV)  
A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in pictures of silver.
Study how to be led of God
2 Chronicles 32-33

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This Piece Is Authored By

Pastor Dunamis Okunowo

Dunamis & Sophia are facilitators of Kisses and Huggs Club. They are ministers, writers, conference speakers, relationship counselors and marriage...

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