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Dear Single, Give Yourself Some Accolades

People tend to see you through you! They were not grasshoppers, God did not create them as grasshoppers, but the moment they saw themselves as grasshoppers, the same image was replicated in others who saw them.

"And there we saw the giants, the sons of Anak, which come of the giants: and we were in our own sight as grasshoppers, and so we were in their sight." (Num 13:33, KJV)

 
If you see yourself as stupid, you will act stupid and people will call you stupid, even though you are smart.
 
If you see yourself as a nuisance, you will act like that and definitely when you show up, people will know that the nuisance has arrived.

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If you see yourself as rejected and disfavoured, you will do everything to follow the script, and people will surely reject you, even though God’s favour rests upon you!
 
If you see yourself as blessed and fortunate, people will keep blessing you, even though there is some generational curse, but the curse will simply fail to work over your life
 
There is a man called Dr. Nick. I am sure you have seen his video. He was born without limbs. No legs. It was a pathetic case, enough for any man to commit suicide. But he didn't see himself as disabled, rather he sees himself as a complete man, as a servant of God and thousands of people, gather to see him inspire them, they forget he has no legs and they listen with rapt attention. He is married to a dashingly beautiful lady who didn’t care abut his disability because Dr. Nick himself never sees himself as inferior to any other man!
 
How do you see yourself? What do you call yourself? Here are a few things to note.
 
1. Never look down on yourself.
You are created in God’s image. Believe it. You are not a mistake. You are not an error. You are not a disaster. You are not a regretful creature. Don't look down on yourself, for if you do, people will look down on you and they will trample on you.
 
This is why the scripture advises:
"Let no one despise or think less of you because of your youth, but be an example (pattern) for the believers in speech, in conduct, in love, in faith, and in purity." (1Ti 4:12, AMP)
 
Nobody can despise you until you permit them by the way you have despised yourself. Celebrate yourself.
 
2. Never speak ill of your self
Words are powerful. Words are so much powerful that whatever you speak about yourself will eventually overwhelm your life and give direction to your life. Your words are like a map and a compass, much more powerful than google maps.
 
Mephibosheth looked at himself and called himself a dead dog. No wonder he lived in a deserted place crawling like a dog, yet royal blood flowed in his vein.
 
When you say, you are not sure you will marry, you are embracing delay in your marital journey. There may be pressures around you, but the ultimate things are what you believe and say with your mouth.
 
If you say you are under a curse and that is why you are not married, things that happen to people who are under influence of curses will happen even though you are not cursed! That is how your words can be powerful. What a man utters carelessly can lead him into the gutter.
 
3. Never try to fix yourself by yourself
You can’t fix yourself in your own way with your own methods. Sleeping around and giving yourself to men will not help your self esteem, it will actually erode it the more. Drinking and smoking will not fix your inner struggle, only Jesus would!
Partying, wild living, carless friendships, will not lead you into a godly marriage. Waiting on God and trusting Him as your shepherd is what will.
 
4. Never compare yourself to others
You are uniquely crafted with exclusive gifts that are branded on your destiny. There is something you can do better than anyone, find it and concentrate on that, rather than wear yourself out trying to do something that others are doing. Comparison traps is referred to as foolishness.
 
"For we dare not make ourselves of the number, or compare ourselves with some that commend themselves: but they measuring themselves by themselves, and comparing themselves among themselves, are not wise." (2Co 10:12, KJV)
 
5. Never give up on yourself
You will still have a beautiful marriage. You still have your own children. You will see the travail of your heart. I curse that spirit of fatigue and tiredness hovering over your destiny. I infuse the strength of God into you inner man by the Spirit of God right now. I command the light of God to shine into dark areas of your mind right now, I terminate the activities of the spirits of confusion over your life right now.
 
I curse the spirits of depression and despondency in your life. That spirit that has caused you to hibernate into passiveness and dulled life is cursed in Jesus name. Fresh energy, divine strength is bursting from within you now, grace to receive the best of God and to wait for His salvation is released unto you right now in Jesus name. Creativity is bursting forth from within you now!
 
The spirit that wants you to give up, wrap up and quit, we stop its activities in Jesus name. I proclaim over your life and destiny right now, God’s word will no longer be prolonged over you. There is a speedy accomplishment over you right now because the hand of the Lord is coming upon you right now. Believe it. Say it. You will see it and people will rejoice with you!

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I am blessed. It is well with me

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Lord, help me to see myself as you see me

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"Even though you're not much right now, you'll end up better than ever."  (Job 8:7, MSG)
 
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