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KHC Devotional

Don’t Allow The Spirit of Accusations And Comparison!

Dear Couple, one of the greatest thing you can do for each other is never to compare your spouse with another person.
 
The Scriptures warns against this.
 


2Co 10:12 (KJV)  

For we dare not make ourselves of the number, or compare ourselves with some that commend themselves: but they measuring themselves by themselves, and comparing themselves among themselves, are not wise.
 
That word “compare” is derived from two different root words in Greek. One of the root words from which it was derived means "to distinguish, that is, decide (mentally or judicially); by implication to try, condemn, punish: - avenge, conclude, condemn, damn, decree, determine, esteem, judge, go to (sue at the) law, ordain, call in question, sentence to, think…"
 
Those are strong words. Every time you compare your spouse with another, you are judging him or her, condemning him or her, and punishing him or her as well.
 
It is not the way to go if you want your marriage to last.
 
Behind every comparison trip is a spirit of accusation seeking to destroy your marriage.
 
You must resist this with every energy you have.
 
This accusing spirit will not allow you to value your spouse.
 
This accusing spirit will make you stand on a pedestal from where you are using unfair eyes to look and judge your spouse.
 
This accusing spirit will not allow you to ever value your spouse for anything.
 
This accusing spirit will never allow you appreciate the person God has given to you and that will make you vulnerable to people who are waiting to deceive you.
 
This accusing spirit will always appreciate others at the expense of one’s spouse.
 
This accusing spirit will put your spouse on a tight spot expecting him or her to fit into the mold of the person you are comparing your spouse with.
 
This accusing spirit is out-rightly critical, always looking for faults and mounting arguments against oneself.
 
This accusing spirit seeks to break agreement between couples, ultimately messing up their prayer lives and efforts.
 
This accusing spirit intends to limit the greatness of the couple, for all they will keep doing is quarreling, never appreciating each other and using a large portion of their lives to fight and settle quarrels in unending cycles.
 
As couples, you have to accept and embrace each other.
 
Stop focusing on the weakness of your spouse.
 
Stop wishing you are better off with someone else.
 
It is unfair to compare your husband with whom you have been married for two, five, ten or more years with a guy or lady you met for one hour! That bothers on wickedness. There is no comparison basis!
 
That “sweet” person you met in a “sweet” circumstance can be the most terrible, violent and wicked soul given another set of circumstances!
 
Understand that the devil hates homes and will use everybody you meet to trap you into breaking your home.
 
Be sensitive and be discerning.
 
Be wise and accept who God has given you as a spouse.
 
To keep comparing your spouse is indirectly refusing to accept God’s direction and indirectly refusing God’s leading about your spouse.
 
I pray God will help you to understand this truth even more as you fully, hundred percent accept and appreciate your spouse so that you can enjoy hundred percent fullness of God’s blessings in your life.
 
Be blessed and enjoy your week!
 
I love you BIG!
 
CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I accept the person God has given me
 
PRAYER FOR THE DAY
Lord, help me to appreciate God always for my spouse and express appreciation for my spouse
 
THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
Psa 147:11 (MSG)  
Those who fear GOD get GOD's attention; they can depend on his strength.
 
ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Ensure you honour God in your tithing
 
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Dunamis & Sophia are facilitators of Kisses and Huggs Club. They are ministers, writers, conference speakers, relationship counselors and marriage...