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Help! My Marriage Is Very Boring...

Many couples are in this dilemma. They consider their spouses the most boring sect while they look forward to hanging out with friends outside.
 
 
Couples are encouraged to first of all be friends. A marriage devoid of friendship will definitely be boring and lonely.
 
What is friendship in marriage? It is an open-minded or neutral bond between two or more people which is exclusive of any sexual relationship.
 
Genesis 2:8
 
A helpmeet is a companion and a companion is simply a friend, someone who we share common goals and interest with.
 
Every marriage must have a basic foundation of friendship in a bid to promote a long lasting marriage. It is not an act that just happens, it is intentional and takes a deliberate effort to make and maintain a good one.
 
How often do you laugh and play together as couples?
 
Do you both have memories that always keep you laughing and smiling when thoughts of it come up?
 
As couples, you are supposed to have activities and games that is fun to you both.
 
What are those activities that are exciting to your spouse?
 
Who is your spouse's favourite comedian?
 
Does the person sound not funny to you?
 
What is your wife/husband's favourite pastime?
 
Do you find that interesting too?
 
Look out for his/her favourite game and play it together.
 
Games are meant to be fun and they are more often than not simple to learn.
 
How often do you pray and attend programmes together?
 
Many of us can go to any length in praying for our "best friends" but doing same for our spouses become a burden.
 
This should not be so.
 
Who is the first person you always look forward to sharing stuffs with?
 
Who is your go-to person that you are sure have your back?
 
Who do you pray for/with most often?
 
Whose thought makes you smile all day?
 
If your spouse occupies none of the above, then you have to work on the friendship level of your marriage.
 
Building quality friendship is based on agreement between the parties involved and it shouldn't be one-sided. Identify what works for both of you and be committed to make it work at all cost.
 
I look forward to more godly marriages that are beautiful and exciting.
 
Shalom!
 
CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I am comfortable around my spouse. I am his/her best friend.
 
PRAYER FOR THE DAY
Lord, help me to love my spouse and always do things that promotes love and happiness in our marriage
 
THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another(Prov. 27:17).
 
ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Do one thing today that will make your spouse laugh hard
 
BIBLE READING FOR TODAY
Proverbs 18

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