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Help Pastor, I Am Having An Affair Part 2


Yesterday, we mentioned three things to do when you are having an affair.
 


1. Ask for forgiveness from God

2. Ask your spouse for forgiveness 

3. Seek help and support
 


Let’s take a look at some more this morning. 

 
4. Change your environment if possible
 


Adulterous sin binds the perpetrators together at the soul level and an illegal soul tie is created. 


 
The perpetrators willfully continue in the sin knowing fully well that what they are doing is wrong and that it would not end well.


 
Pro 6:32-33 (KJV)
But whoso committeth adultery with a woman lacketh understanding: he that doeth it destroyeth his own soul. [33] A wound and dishonour shall he get; and his reproach shall not be wiped away.
 
It often requires total brokenness and submission to the Holy Spirit to completely break free.


 
One other way you can help yourself if you find yourself entangled is to change your environment if possible.


 
Cut off from him or her.


 
Take his or her number off your phone lest your soul is given to perdition. 


 
Stop having lunch breaks together.


 
Stop scheming for opportunities to talk and look into each other's eyes. 


 
Remember, all this is about your soul!


 
5. Deal with your heart
 


Nobody wakes up one morning and decides to go into adultery.
 


It has been in the heart all long.
 


That person has been planning, scheming, imagining, and one day, that which is in mind happens in time.


 
Ask God to take that heart of stone away and give you a heart of flesh.


 
Ask God to renew a right spirit within you like David prayed when he found himself enmeshed in 

the triplicate sins of adultery, murder and deception.
 
Psa 51:10 (KJV) 

Create in me a clean heart, O God; and renew a right spirit within me
 


Take a look at another translation:


 
Psa 51:10 (MSG) 

God, make a fresh start in me, shape a Genesis week from the chaos of my life.


 
As you lift up your voice in sincerity and integrity, God will answer you and make all things new!


 
Never believe the devil that you are too far gone!


 
There can be redemption and a new beginning in your marriage.


 
May God answer you in the very area where you need him in Jesus name 


 
6. Be patient


 
Lastly, you have to be patient. 


 
Don’t expect some overnight forgiveness from your spouse.
 


It takes while, and the quicker the better because it is dangerous to hold any one in your heart without forgiveness.


 
Let your spouse see that you are truly a changed person.
 


Be open.
 
Let your phones be accessible.


 
Disclose your location every time and stop telling lies. 


 
Every lie you tell will be discovered one day and trust will be broken.


 
Stay truthful, no matter what.


 
May God help us all in Jesus name
 
CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I have a new spirit within me
 
PRAYER FOR THE DAY

Lord, create the right spirit within me
 


THOUGHT FOR THE DAY 

Psa 51:11 (KJV)
Cast me not away from thy presence; and take not thy holy spirit from me.
 
ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY

Consecrate yourself afresh
 
READ THROUGH THE BIBLE IN ONE YEAR
Luke 22; John 13

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This Piece Is Authored By

Pastor Dunamis Okunowo

Dunamis & Sophia are facilitators of Kisses and Huggs Club. They are ministers, writers, conference speakers, relationship counselors and marriage...

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