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Here Are Things I Had To Deal With Before Marriage


Marriage is a life long journey and you want to be sure you travel light.
 
 
You don't want to carry unnecessary baggage that will make your journey strenuous and unpleasant.
 
There are are stuffs that are anti-blissful in marriage.
 
Someone once said if you want to travel by flight, you go light.
 
That's is why your luggage is weighed at the airport before you board the plane.
 
If the purpose of God for your marriage and home is going to be accomplished, you must decide to let go of some certain habits or mindset.
 
They may not necessarily be sins but the Bible talks about laying aside the weight that easily beset us.
 
Heb 12:1
Wherefore seeing we also are compassed about with so great a cloud of witnesses, let us lay aside every weight, and the sin which doth so easily beset us, and let us run with patience the race that is set before us.
 
Your marriage is the race set before you and you must be prepared to run it with patience. You will not make a ship wreck of your marriage in Jesus name.
 
Here are 10 things or ideology you must let go of before saying 'I do'.
 
1. You can not afford to be lazy
 
Marriage is for the mature, spirit, soul and body. Your physical energy and ability to work is important in marriage.
 
As a wife, keeping the home requires a lot of hard work. Many homes have been destroyed by the laziness of either the wife or husband.
 
A wife that cannot cook may put his husband at the risk of strange women who are there to offer sumptuous meals to him.
 
To fulfill your roles requires a lot of inner strength. That's why women must learn to multitask. As the babies begin to come, the work increases, for both husband and wife.
 
Even if you have maids, you must to careful not to completely leave your home in their hands.
 
As a husband, you must be hardworking to sustain the family.
 
Most families are suffering in poverty because either spouse is not hard working.
 
When either spouse is laid back, presumptuous and not a goal-getter, it affects a lot of things.
 
2. You can not live like a bachelor or spinster in marriage
 
There are some lifestyles that are associated to the single life.
 
You must be ready to let go of such lifestyles. For example, keeping late nights or hanging out with friends for long hours.
 
Before you say 'I do', you must be ready to part with your old lifestyles.
 
You cannot combine the two. You cannot put new wine into old wine skin.
 
Th problem is some people want to enjoy the benefits of marriage but want to live the life of being single.
 
As a wife, you are good with cornflakes and noodles, but as a wife, if your husband said he wants real good food, you have to do that.
 
Yes, there should be compromise sometimes when you help each other or eat out especially when both of you have been at work all day
 
 
3. You must be responsible
 
The marriage life requires responsibility. It's a life of being responsible.
 
You don't live for yourself alone. You think about your spouse and your family's well being.
 
You think and carry the thoughts of your family every where you go.
 
That will inform your decision per time. You don't just wake up one morning and decide to travel for three weeks.
 
Your life as a married man or woman must reflect being responsible in all areas.
 
That's why even society frowns at it, if a married woman or man dresses seductively because that is not expected of him/her. A married person is expected to be responsible.
 
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