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Here Is How To Tend Your Marriage

I like to view marriage as a garden. Your marriage needs time, attention, care, being sensitive and gentle and above all skill and patience. No matter what is planted in your garden, whether vegetables or flowers, it requires your attention. If you are not ready to give your garden time and attention, don't bother planting a garden.
 
 
You must enjoy and love being around your garden for it to blossom. You can not treat your garden like you do a farm land where a lot of farm land is allowed. A garden is a personal assignment. You give it the time and attention it requires.
 
Never use the same principle you use in working the farm land on your garden. It won't work because they are totally different. Many couples are making this mistake. They love the beauty of flowers but want to apply the method they use in planting cassava.
 
For your cassava, just make a heap, cut your cassava stem, stick it into the soil and you can go to sleep for the next several weeks. Your cassava does not need any special attention or focus. But not so with your garden.
 
You know sometimes, I wonder why, some marriages don't reach their full potential despite the good heart of the couples. Some of them might be anointed. I heard pastor Benny Hinn, a man of God I so much love and respect said the main reason for his divorce was that he didn't give the marriage the needed attention. Thank Gracious God they are beautifully restored now and doing very well.
 
I can not but wonder why?, how? I guess God is so much principled that He will honor His word. The principle you work is what will work for you. Some times we need to slow down and give the needed attention our marriage requires. There is no point wishing your spouse were a 'cassava', if your spouse is a 'rose flower'.
 
You better change your techniques and tools. If your spouse is a 'rose flower', get your hand gloves, hand trowel, watering can and get to work. You may not sweat it out like in the farm but you will be required to gently tend your garden. Each requires different skill.
 
However, if you stubbornly stick to the farming method you prefer you will not get the best of it. In order to tend your marriage, follow these simple steps.
 
1. First discover the type of person your spouse is. Is your marriage a garden or a farm land?

2. This discovery has to be done by both of you discussing it.

3. Know what your partner requires you to make your marriage work.

4. Set out to learn about these requirements.

5. Never assume you know all it takes to make your marriage work.

6. Be focused on making it work.

7. Be ready and humble enough to learn.

8. Always take your spouse along and check with each other if you are making progress. Example the proof you are on the right track is when you see the flowers in your garden blossom.

9. Don't stop doing those things that produced the results.

10. Master the technique and do it over and over again, till it becomes part of you.
 
God bless your marriage.
 
CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
My marriage will blossom
 
PRAYER FOR THE DAY

Lord, grant me the wisdom I need to tend my marriage
 
THOUGHT FOR THE DAY 

Son 4:16
Awake, O north wind; and come, thou south; blow upon my garden, that the spices thereof may flow out. Let my beloved come into his garden, and eat his pleasant fruits.
 
ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY

Follow step 1 - 10
 
READ THROUGH THE BIBLE IN ONE YEAR
Luke 14 -15
 

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