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How Compatible Must We Be Before Marriage?

I will consider a few characteristics to watch out for in a potential lover.
 
Our generation has turned around what compatibility is.
 
Once the word "compatibility" is mentioned, this generation is thinking sex, bedroom stuffs.
 
But there are deeper things than sex.
 
Here are a few areas you should consider in looking at the compatibility test.
 
1. Intelligence and Brilliance
 
Yes, intelligence.
 
What do couples spend most of their time doing in their married life?
 
They talk. They discuss. They flow. They sometime gossip. They play. They crack jokes. Mostly words and conversations.
 
This is why you need a partner with an equivalent or near equivalent level of intelligence.
 
If this is not in place, you are going to look out and get adulterous in your bid to get a "gist" partner.
 
How do you find out one's level of intelligence?
 
Its' very easy. You don't need an IQ test. You mostly know how versed a person is in general areas or specific areas through conversations.
 
Words are revelatory!
 
Quality of conversation will show you all you need to know.
 
When you discuss with a potential suitor, is it dull, with few contributions, and long silence in between? Though, this could be as a result of first time shyness.
 
Or is it stimulating, enriching and enjoyable? That shows you something.
 
If you are in the same league of intelligence, you will both enjoy the conversation.
 
If the intelligence gap is wide, both of you are going to get really bored.
 
If you cannot agree on basic things in times of conversation, or you find yourself angered by the opinions or you simply can't keep up with pace of conversation, you are probably on different realms of intelligence.
 
You are good if you discuss for hours and you enjoyed it all the way and you even wanted more!
 
I will continue tomorrow.
 
May God bless your relationship
 
CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I am intelligent
 
PRAYER FOR THE DAY
Pray for wisdom in your choice
 
THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
Proverbs 16:25 (KJV)  
There is a way that seemeth right unto a man, but the end thereof are the ways of death.
 
ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Pray for wisdom
 
READ THROUGH THE BIBLE IN ONE YEAR
Matthew 18

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This Piece Is Authored By

Pastor Dunamis Okunowo

Dunamis & Sophia are facilitators of Kisses and Huggs Club. They are ministers, writers, conference speakers, relationship counselors and marriage...

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