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How To Break Away From Ungodly Soul Ties

Buddy and Sandy were so much in love. As students on campus, they got involved in sex from time to time. Even though, they were born again, it didn't bother them since they knew they would eventually get married.

They loved themselves so much. But along the line, Buddy saw another girl in one of the sessional holidays and fell in love as well. He started sleeping with that one as well since his understanding of cementing a love affair is endless sessions of sex.
When school resumed, Buddy and Sandy had a major quarrel. As usual, Sandy thought the quarrel would soon end, but rather than for it to end, Buddy was willing to walk away from the relationship.
He mumbled something like, Sandy was too stubborn and he didn't want to marry a stubborn woman who will not listen to him.

He ended the relationship. So easily like when you use a remote control to end a film on Television.
What Sandy didn’t know was that there was another girl. After a while, Sandy started begging, but Buddy was resolute. They parted their ways later and Buddy went ahead to marry the other girl.
Sandy tried hard to move on but couldn’t. Something still drew her back to Buddy that she couldn't understand.
After a while, it even got worse and she expected that Buddy’s marriage would soon crash and he would come back for her, even after three years of marriage with the other lady.
What was Sandy’s problem?
It is called Soul ties!
Soul ties are actually real, it is not just figments of imagination.
I have seen people bound in soul ties and they just couldn’t move on with their lives. I have seen people bound with soul ties and they couldn't maintain a healthy relationship with others.
The scriptures makes us to know that souls can be knitted together as in the case of David and Jonathan. It wasn’t a love affair, but it was a deep soul love where one is willing to die for the other.
The scriptures says that man shall leave his father and mother and be knitted to his wife and they will become one flesh. Those are the positive sides of soul ties.

 But really, in pre-marital sex, there is also a soul tie, a bonding, an illegal bonding because disobedience is involved.
It is this disobedience that brings in confusion to the soul. When this confusion of the soul becomes strong, you find it difficult to move on with your life.
A practical example of soul ties as a result of sex can be found here:
"And when Shechem the son of Hamor the Hivite, prince of the country, saw her, he took her, and lay with her, and defiled her. And his soul clave unto Dinah the daughter of Jacob, and he loved the damsel, and spake kindly unto the damsel." (Gen 34:2-3, KJV)
A soul tie can also be formed as a result of oaths, vows and commitments.
Now, how do you break soul ties?
1. If sex is involved, the first thing is to repent of such and ask God for forgiveness. Believe that once you ask for forgiveness genuinely and you don't repeat such, God has forgiven you and given a clean bill of health

2. The second thing is to destroy any object of commitment, be it rings, gifts with name, initials and so on.
Such gifts symbolises the ungodly relationship and become mementos of what you want to forget. It will be good to get rid of them, if you can.
3. Renounce any form of vows and oaths and plead the blood of Jesus to cleanse and sanctify you.
4. Forgive the person of any ill-feeling, hurts or bitterness.
5. Stop getting in touch with such a person, so that you can move on with your own life.
5. Go ahead and fast for some days, severing any soul tie and asking God to start you on a new note. Ask God to restore your soul. Psalm 23 says, “He restoreth my soul.”
6. Don’t rush into another relationship. Take your time and be sure you are properly healed.
7. Get equipped. Read books. Develop yourself. Get this devotional daily and build your self up spiritually.
8. Trust God and believe God for a new relationship that will be devoid of sin or compromise. See a glorious future and a blessed family ahead.
I am going to stop here this morning. Now, a word of prayer for you:
In the name of Jesus, I severe you by the power of the Holy Spirit from any ungodly soul ties. I break you free from every oppression of the soul by the enemy and I declare you free in Jesus name! I declare that it is a new day for you in Jesus name!
I am free because Jesus made me free
I severe myself from all unogodly soul ties
"But his soul longed for and clung to Dinah daughter of Jacob, and he loved the girl and spoke comfortingly to her young heart's wishes." (Gen 34:3, AMP)
Stop all ungodly relationships
Isaiah 5-8

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Pastor Dunamis Okunowo

Dunamis & Sophia are facilitators of Kisses and Huggs Club. They are ministers, writers, conference speakers, relationship counselors and marriage...

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