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I've Got All The Money But Still Single

“Out of all the girls I have dated and still dating, I don’t even know which is which anymore”. I keep getting more confused, I’m sure it’s just my money they are attracted to, because if that’s not it, looking at it critically, none of these ladies really love me.
“When I say, let’s go to see your parent, all they ask for is more money, clothes, shoes, Iphone X, I have not been sensitive enough.” Or could the problem be with the girls and not me? Or it's just the kind of ladies that I attract? But I can’t experience such with over seven ladies nah, the problem must be from me.“
Tolu pondered one Saturday afternoon as he took a walk down the road of his estate.”
"Why would I be single at age 40 and not have just one lady out of many to call my prospective wife?
Even with these ladies around me, I still feel very alone and lonely. There must be something wrong and I need to figure it out."
If you are in a similar situation, firstly, you need to know that God is not an author of confusion. It is also not in his plans for you to ever feel or be lonely. He knows that no matter the amount of money you have, you would still need a help meet that complements you.
Genesis 2:18:
Now the Lord God said, “it is not good (beneficial) for the man to be alone; I will make him a helper(one who balances him a counterpart) who is suitable and complementary for him.”
But, “For you to have a helper suitable for you, you have to become the man that doesn’t deserve to be alone.”
The man that doesn’t deserve to be alone is the man who is willing to be placed in the garden of God and remains there forever.
Tolu was probably a man who was only after making money, more money, more money and more money. So he attracted ladies that were interested in asking for more money, more clothes, more Iphone X.
Tolu misplaced his priority.
Money is essential but God’s presence should be priority. There has to be a balance.
If you spend your time making more money instead of dwelling more in God’s presence and making money in the process, you will attract ladies that are most likely interested in spending your money alone, because you are not totally submitted to the creator of that money.
The first thing God gave man was his presence. When God made man, he put him in the garden of Eden also called paradise which is the biblical “Garden of God”.
He put man to have authority over everything he created.
The original intent of God as regards man was clear from the beginning. His intention was for man to dwell completely in his presence.
Genesis 1:26:
Then God said, “Let us (Father, Son, Holy spirit) make man in our own image, according to our likeness (not physical, but a spiritual personality and moral likeness) and let them have complete authority over the fish of the sea, the birds of the air, the cattle and over the entire earth and over everything that creeps and crawls on the earth. (AMP)
The first thing a man needs is the presence of God.
Thereafter, a woman should meet you in the presence of God.
You cannot totally submit to a man who is not submitted to God first.
A man cannot be fully submitted to God if he does not acknowledge the presence of God and be of the consciousness that he has been made according to the spiritual personality and moral likeness of God.
You cannot ignore God's standard and still expect a Godly outcome.
As a man, you cannot seek the highest good for a woman and surround her with a caring and unselfish love successfully if you do not know and cannot identify the source of Love itself.
May God grant more understanding.
I abide in the presence of God all the days of my life. My help meet is genuinely loved by me because I have been made according to the moral likeness of God.
Lord, help me to abide in your presence all day long, so that my joy will be full and the bone of my b ones, and flesh of my flesh would locate and find me in your presence.
Romans 10:15- And how will they preach unless they are commissioned and sent for that purpose? Just as it is written and forever remains written, “How beautiful are the feet of those who bring good news of good things!
Prepare yourself to be the kind of man that doesn’t deserve to be alone.
Philippians 4:1

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